Huge Fight

United States
June 2, 2010 10:02pm CST
How do you and your lover deal after yall have had a bad fight? Do yall make up "wink wink", or not talk to each other or just brush it aside and just go back to being the same old way?
7 responses
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
3 Aug 10
Well its common in love, but one should get silent when the fight reaches its height, after all its a emotional act.
• Philippines
4 Jun 10
we just argued a few days ago. it was a huge fight. but after we calmed down, we decided to talk about it and settle things up. i think it's not good to just ignore it. you should talk about how and why you fought and learn how to never repeat it again.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
3 Jun 10
lillybelle my husband and I usually settled down and started apologizing to each other then talked out the problem and realized we were not so much angry at each other but at life and being out 'of money. so then we wou ld tackle this problem . several times with my son in school I went back to work as a nurses aide and with what he made and w hat I made we made ends meet.we were not wealthy but we coped with housr payment and food and utility bills.we did not have cable tb or a lot of the goodies so many thing they cannot live without and do go into debt just to have them. I have been a widow for years now and have different problems but Iwill cope.
@med889 (5941)
3 Jun 10
Usually when we are discussing something and end up fighting then we will remain silent for some one hour and after than we will talk to each other, the same day we will definitely be making love too, so we do not stay quiet for too long.
@hurbx182 (23)
• United States
3 Jun 10
Well as fun as doing it after a fight is, that will only last for so long. My personal feeling is you need to talk about things with you significant other, both have an understanding, make up emotionally first, then do it. ;)...If you dont talk about things and fix them right away, your only going to have future problems down the line. And talking about problems with your husband or wife can be very frustrating, especially when you think your right. But sometimes you have to give in order to keep the relationship in tact.
• India
3 Jun 10
lovers will fight among themselves for many reasons , its true..and the reason for that is only that they love each other..so complaints will always come..and sometimes fight also.... but after being silent for a small while we have to go and console them,our lover, as they really will be waiting for that...there will not be any ego clash and all ...there should be only love at the end so keep her hand always in your hand and dont let her to feel lonley
@ann101 (518)
• China
3 Jun 10
We just quarreled a few days ago and not talk to each other for many days,but to be honest,I don't think quarreling is the best way to deal with problems between us.I felt uncomfortable and couldn't slept well in the quarreling days,and he was the same too.So if we are loved ones,why can we solve problems in more peaceful ways?Now we have met for five years and he told me yesterday that he have made an conlusion about us,that is you can not be too serious in the marriage life.In the most time we just quarrel about trivial things or nothing.