Have you ever?

United States
June 3, 2010 7:44am CST
Have you ever wondered about a where an ex was? Maybe you broke up for something that wasn't bad and you wonder what they are doing now. I know a lot of people have done this and have a fantasy in there head of what the other person is like and then they are so disappointed when they find out the truth. I have wondered about an ex but no fantasy in my head I had no idea what he was doing and therefore had no preconceived ideas about him. How about you?
1 response
• India
3 Jun 10
Thats a very good decision .. that is "live and let live " he is ex as you have mentioned so why worry about whats gone .. it rather better to see into the future and better prospects .
• United States
3 Jun 10
In most cases I agree with you. I have this friend and he has dated a few girls who moved away so they broke up but then latter he wonders what they are up to but then gets disappointed. I told him that if it was that serious they would have stayed together in the first place.
• India
3 Jun 10
Yes you are right if they were serious with their relationship they would have continued with him .. probably after getting close to him they realized that he is not the type of person they want in their life so they moved away to the person they feel is perfect for them.. tell your friend to check over his approach towards them.