is it really difficult being the eldest child in the family?

I am the eldest in the family, and lucky for me, my parents have not expected anything from me. Depending on the traditions of the place, the role of the eldest is often seen as burdensome. However, I believe in what Ann Frank said that everyone is responsible for his own upbringing, so if your eldest had failed in some things and you fail as well with an excuse that you were just following your elder sibling, I think that's just a lame excuse. As to financial matters, even though my parents don't expect it, I sometimes give them support. Now that I am myself working, I now appreciate the hardwork that they've done in order for me to finish school and get good jobs. And while I still don't have my own family to support, I will try to support them instead of wasting money in other unworthy matters.

I'm the oldest child in my family. I don't feel like its' incredibly hard. I'm just a role model for my younger sister. I try to lead by example, but most of the time she doesn't listen. I like being the older sister, actually.

hi,jess,i can tell you in few words..inspite of your statement prevails mostly in the society,but when the elder guy/girl was born in rich family without any burden then there nothing problem and very happy also. All the best and have a nice time.