love

Philippines
June 4, 2010 10:57am CST
Do you think he or she loves you ..if you ask why you never hear the words "i love you" then he or she will change the mood explaining that she or he is very busy?
8 responses
• India
5 Jun 10
I would say i am lucky, whenever i felt i love somebody , i always proposed . i have proposed 2 girls and both had agreed, and the first one we broke up as we didn't like to continue, the second one i love her from past 6 years and she is together beside me alwyas need to marry her now, as i found my soul mate in her
@skysuccess (8880)
• Singapore
4 Jun 10
meetmehalfway, Some people are just not expressive with words or eloquent enough and I just do not see that their love for their love ones could be anything or anywhere short. I feel that partners should realize that the day they decided to commit to each other and be understanding enough to realize that it's how a person is developed emotionally. Not everyone is apt to be affectionate. You will be surprised knowing how some people demonstrate their affection in love. It's not because they don't love their partners - but rather, their environment and personal development had grown in such a way that they are unable to respond to love spontaneously and heartily. I feel that a relationship goes beyond those 3 words. It's how we uncover about each others' true personality, deal with it and grow from there. That takes years of effort to compromise, shape and evolve to craft a relationship. So, now that you know more about him and your relationship, start structuring a form or basis of communication - relating individual needs and definition of love. Try to blend indifference into something workable and learn to fine tune regularly to keep it in shape. Remember, Love is never stagnant; like a dough, it constantly remakes and renews itself. Take care.
@nina_khan (749)
• Pakistan
4 Jun 10
I dont know how will you feel after reading my reply but i think Love and calling some one I love u does not mean any thing. when you love some one and other party does is it too. you dont need to tell them again and again that you love them or not? when you do something such work hard and struggle for them they know that you are only doing it for the sake of saving his/her love. Yes, some times there is a need but i all the time you dont need to do it. i think you must be getting me. actually i personally thing " Action speaks louder than Words "
@kquiming (2998)
• Philippines
4 Jun 10
yeah i'd still believe he loves me even he doesn't say I love you all the time especially when he's busy, but of course we should be smart enough to sense if he's really telling the truth or not, say, he's just making up lies sayin' he's busy but the truth is, he could be falling out of love...know what I'm sayin? anyway, point is, i've been out with guys who are not very showy when it comes to affection and sayin' i love you's. as long as i feel i'm loved and being treated right, i don't mind.
• India
4 Jun 10
it is not necessary to say my lover that i love her. and also the love towards any person cannot be explained by just telling that i love you. it become too formal then. i dont like formalities between lovers.if he says that he is busy , sometimes it will be true. you have to admire that there is a world around you apart from you two lovers. but surely he will not always keep you away from you by just telling that he is busy. if you feel like that then it is sure that he didnt love you. but complaints in a love can occur easier. it is due to the fact that you love him a lot.believe in your lover and have a great time
@silvercoin (2101)
• Lithuania
4 Jun 10
Most guys express their feelings through actions and not the words.I dated a guy who used to say these three magic words every 5 minutes.He never loved me and he never cared about me.He just repeated same thing again and again.As for girls, they say more gentle words to their loved ones, but this too doesn't mean they're really in love. Words can be fake, actions are real. Like does he/she worry when you feel bad,support you,help you with your problems,listen to you instead of judging you.This is what proves love.Daily actions.
• China
4 Jun 10
Well, for me I don't pay much attention about how many times he has told me that he loves me :) I anticipate more tiny and usual romantic deeds he does for me.Try to not complain your partner all the time when he says that he is busy,maybe it is true. Try to understand and tolerate your partner and it will increase your harmony each other.
• Philippines
4 Jun 10
Being busy sometimes may result to rejection of time with your love one but that's not a reason because you have someone to take care and in return take care of you but you'll just ignore him or her meaning she has no place in your heart at all.