Love with No Spark

Philippines
June 5, 2010 12:21am CST
I've had this certain discussion with a friend a few months ago about seeing that spark when you want to be in a relationship with someone. Is spark really necessary to pursue a relationship with someone? What if you don't feel that kind of magic as they say but you guys are pretty much soulmates and agree on almost everything? Your insights on this matter would be very much appreciated.
5 responses
• Philippines
5 Jun 10
I think it's important, you will notice it the very first time you feel being in love. Sometimes, it comes along the way because it's natural. In my case, me and my partner are both on the opposite side of being soul mates. I'm straightforward, while she's taking matters in a slow manner. But we're still both together, because sometimes it's the opposition that makes a relationship stronger.
• Philippines
5 Jun 10
That's nice. I guess opposites do attract.
@ronz30 (275)
• Philippines
5 Jun 10
I think spark is not that important because when you really someone you will know if it is for real or not
@ericpapasit (1274)
• Philippines
5 Jun 10
curious about that spark! But love though begins with an attraction towards the another...
@vikas_711 (106)
• India
5 Jun 10
yup, spark should be there, it would make your relationship alike, healthy and more alive. I feel so. Without this relationship become some kind of boundation and then comes to and end at one stage.
• Philippines
5 Jun 10
i'm not quite sure about this "spark" but i guess the very reason you become inlove with someone is that so-called spark! crushes and admiration can be explained while falling inlove can only be rooted to that explainable thing!