What do you when some one ignore you?

China
June 5, 2010 8:36am CST
The person who is very special for you. You take care that person. But if she/he ignore you then? What do you do? It's really hurt when such a person ignore us without any reason. Share your own opinion!
11 responses
@much2say (53954)
• Los Angeles, California
5 Jun 10
Well, if the person is that close to me, I would flat out ask why they were ignoring me! Most likely there is a reason why they are ignoring - otherwise they wouldn't do it. It's possible too that they really aren't ignoring, it just may seem that way. For instance, I am totally into my family life, and some of my "single" friends don't completely understand why I can't hang out with them. I'm not ignoring them - I'm just very busy! And since I've gotten one truthful complaint, now I make an effort to let them all know I am definitely NOT ignoring them . . . like if I can't make it to their outing or whatever . . . I'm just plain BUSY!
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@much2say (53954)
• Los Angeles, California
13 Jun 10
Thank you for BR, dreamsharmin! I hope a special someone is not ignoring you and that you get things resolved soon if they are indeed ignoring you! I just ran into this issue with a friend during the weekend (sigh). She thinks I am ignoring her and I had to set it straight (again).
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
5 Jun 10
This is one gesture that i hated so much. When someone i love ignore me,my kids for an example,it really hurts me. But,i won't insist to talk with them,i will let time pass,and took the timings. Usually,it doesn't last for a day...but still it hurts when my kids ignore me.
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@sender621 (14894)
• United States
6 Jun 10
I do get a bit frustrated when someone ignores me. this is especially true if what i need from them is important. Ignoring someone can be quite insulting and rude. It hurts when you feel you are being slighted by someone.
@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
5 Jun 10
It hurts a lot. And it's difficult to pretend not to know each other. If that works, then it's best not to see each other.
@setsuna26 (2751)
• Philippines
5 Jun 10
I get easily frustrated when someone ignores me specially if its intentionally. Most of the time i tend to ask this person whats wrong, i mean maybe because i did something rude or something that might have provoked this person to be mad at me, i dont like the fact that people get mad at me or ignores me thats why i will try my best to know the reason why. Unless if the person gets really irritated with what im doing then i dont force the issue anymore
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@sindhusha (180)
• India
5 Jun 10
each person has a different character and mentality.No two persons see the same situation in the same type.Some see it in the positive way and the other in negative.Even if same see it in a positive or negative way they express in different ways.You love a person and want to take special care of them.that's your way of expressing your feeling.if they ignore you it is not that they don't love you or did that in order to hurt you.May be they feel it's not the best thing.so discuss with the person give them your opinion take their's opinion and solve the problem.
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@Wizzywig (7847)
5 Jun 10
I think it hurts and is upsetting at first but, after a while, that person & their opinion of you becomes less important and you just move on & concentrate on the people who matter.
@redhotpogo (4401)
• United States
5 Jun 10
I don't know, depends on how i'm feeling. If I am in a good mood, I might just let it slide, but if not i'll probably ignore them back. like "What? Oh now you see me?"
5 Jun 10
Is this person your own husband or wife? If a person is ignoring you there must be a reason. Why don't you just ask them in a nice way, why they are ignoring you. It might take a load off your mind, but be ready for the truth, it might be an answer that will hurt you. It just depends on you and the person and the situation. cricket 10
@Aitrita (145)
• Switzerland
5 Jun 10
no matter how special they are to me, if they ignore me, I'd do the same with maybe more intensity, regardless of what I've been feeling about them.of course I'd make sure before that they have no logical reason for it.
5 Jun 10
There isn't much you CAN do... I think the best thing to do is to give that person space and try not to obsess over it. It all depends on your situation, though.