Once a Cheater Always a Cheater?
@washingtonmark (367)
United States
June 8, 2010 1:42pm CST
Do you believe that once somebody cheats on there significant other, that they will not hesitate to do it to there next partner.
I believe that if somebody is truely in love they will not cheat even if they have done it in the past, but once that other person does something to frustrate the "cheater" they will go right back to there cheating ways.
6 responses
@KathysLaw (77)
• United States
10 Jun 10
Absolutely! There is no way in hell after you tasted cheating that you wll be faithful right? Wrong! If you decide that you want to turn your life around and be a man or a women of god, is absolutely possible!! The question is will you?
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
17 Jun 10
It depends upon circumstances. There are those who cheats for some reason. Usually, not all, it happens but I believe that they can also change. It only depends on how they really deal with it because some are not that strong enough to control their bad habits.
@keep_onwatch (2680)
• India
9 Jun 10
I have to say, I do, coz' as you said, people in love, do not cheat, and if they do, there is every chance they would do it again. If there is will and determination, change can take place, but never saw that till now.
@la_chique (1498)
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8 Jun 10
I think the statement is true. Its all about self control and if someone's lost it before then what's to say they wont again.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
8 Jun 10
Every one can change,if only they want.
But sometimes,circumstances make them stay as they are.
A cheater is always cheater,becoz,no one give them the right reason to changed.
Or,no one has ever give the cheater a chance to prove he/she had changed.
For me,i believe,every bad traits/character in a person can be changed with determination,inspiration and faith in thyself.
@yumakutsuu (72)
• Canada
9 Jun 10
I believe people make mistakes in love or not a human being is not perfect and can sucumb to temptations. I don't think it is fair to say once a cheater always a cheater. If someone steals are they always a thief, if someone kills are they always a murderer? Yes if someone cheats it is wrong and I would be worried for a long time, however they may never cheat again I have seen it happen multiple times. I just don't think it's fair to brand someone who has made a single mistake to bear that mistake for the rest of their lives.
