BOYS!!why is it soo hard to make them understand...

@amelly (1554)
Malaysia
June 8, 2010 8:48pm CST
i hate it when one of my twin brothers woke up and head straight to the tv and watch cartoon..without even brushing his teeth or washing his face..to me,that is so pathetic and gross!!i woke up early today and i already did the house chores till now..and my other two brothers will surely drive me up the wall when they wake up after this..man,sometimes i feel like i want to be alone in the house rather than handling these bunch of nerve-wrackinga and annoying boys....gosh..god,help me
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10 responses
• United States
9 Jun 10
you are female it seems. dont take it so strongly! males are different and raw. i wake up and dont brush my teeth because i eat first, and while i am eating..is it not better to eat while watching something?! it may seem gross, but if i brush my teeth first, then eat...then brush my teeth again, that is just extra brushing! so i would rather get the rest out of my way..and then my teeth can sparkle afterwards! (smiling then looking at the camera....(bing!)
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@amelly (1554)
• Malaysia
9 Jun 10
yeah..maybe you are right,,yup i am a girl..it is just that the least they can do is brush the teeth..it is tiring to nag them starting from morning to night...they can be so annoying sometimes..
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• United States
9 Jun 10
well..the naggin of a female is generally automatically tuned out by the male. why not find other ways to show them to brush their teeth if it is that important? like whenever they speak to you...just whip out a piece of gum! or if they talk on a phone..make sure you clean it afterwards..but please try not to be too harsh about it!
@amelly (1554)
• Malaysia
9 Jun 10
no..i'm not gonna push myself or my brothers to listen to me..they are just naughty..but sometimes they are nice and helpful..
@Ritchelle (3790)
• Philippines
11 Jun 10
make them have their girl to visit them in the house. let's see what they'll do. they might even scold you themselves for being untidy in the house .
@amelly (1554)
• Malaysia
11 Jun 10
yeah..they will surely do that..
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@aeroomkar (191)
• India
9 Jun 10
boys will be boys....
@amelly (1554)
• Malaysia
10 Jun 10
i definitely agree on that..i do grateful that my brothers act NORMALLY..
@thomad13 (210)
• United States
9 Jun 10
Believe me I know how you feel. I have five brothers and all boy cousins. I always felt like I was living with the laziest, messiest group of people. And of course being the only girl I was the house maid. I have two sons of my own now 6 yrs old and 9 months old. Thankfully my husband has 5 sisters and all girl cousins so Im blessed not to have a messy man to teach our sons bad habits. He is the complete opposite of messy, he is a clean freak. And my old son is the same. He hates being dirty and his room to be out of place. Good luck to you.
@amelly (1554)
• Malaysia
10 Jun 10
yeah..i'm also the house maid.thanks for the 'good luck' wish..well,lots of nagging will make them move their butts and help me out..that always work out..you are so lucky your husband has so many sisters that can help you...hopefully my future family will be hygienic..hehe
@durgabala (1360)
• India
9 Jun 10
Its difficult handling boys at every stage. Most of them are naughty and they never seem to understand anything. but naughty boys make good son and husband in later years. My mother and MIL say so. I felt my 5 yr old son was the naughtiest, but I saw even more naughtier boys. My son doesn't brush or washes his face after waking up in he mor, he straight heads to the TV. During holidays he never bothers to wake up early...hahhaha...he says "its vacation mom" . He doesn't allow my maid to sweep and mop. Inspite of all these he is very charming when he is at his best of behaviours. He is so calm at sleep. he looks so innocent. LOL
@amelly (1554)
• Malaysia
10 Jun 10
yeah..that is so true..even my last brother look so cute when he is asleep..he look like an innocent-small boy..ya see,he got a baby face..well,i gues it is fine to enjoy your life as a kid when you are one..
• Romania
9 Jun 10
Well believe or not but thats more common than you think! Most guys only do what you want them to do when they have something to do that implies it (ye I know its confusing :))! My head hurts :(
@amelly (1554)
• Malaysia
10 Jun 10
yeah..sometimes i need to force them to do it or else i'll tell mum..and they are so in trouble(that is the dirty way)hehehe...
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
9 Jun 10
hi amelly he he I had to laugh picturing them and teasing the heck out of you. but cheer up they will learn to be cleaner one day' soon and when they are old enough to look up to big sister, or am I assuming wrong that they are younger then you are? But one day they will make you proud when they do things that show they really care about their sister. So just wait a few years. he he.
@amelly (1554)
• Malaysia
9 Jun 10
yup,they are younger than me..one of them is 15 and the twins is 13..yeah,i will just wait and starting end of the june,they will have to take care of the house themselves because i will not be around..i'm heading to college..hehe
@sindhusha (180)
• India
9 Jun 10
Hey Amelly, I always wanted brothers.But reading your's I never wish to have one.But I think they will learn some day.You must have been tired with these boys.So I wish they learn to maintain their clealiness as soon as possible.
@amelly (1554)
• Malaysia
9 Jun 10
yes i am..sometimes they play rugby in the house with the real ball and you can just imagine how the surrounding will be..
@krischine (269)
• Philippines
9 Jun 10
funny, hehehe little boys doesn't care in hygiene, they will just woke up and play, watching cartoons. Teach them to learn in doing household chores, don't let the TV set on if those two kids aren't done with their task.. but let them play, that's what they want.
@amelly (1554)
• Malaysia
9 Jun 10
yeah..i will try..it's funny though because it is as if my brothers are 8 something but actually they are 13 and 15..
@elrvld (120)
• Argentina
9 Jun 10
Maybe because your brothers are young, wait for a while... :P Maybe some day they will change their behavior.
@amelly (1554)
• Malaysia
9 Jun 10
maybe..but isn't it just nice to help me out once in a while..hurm...