fate?

@tonylijo (135)
India
June 9, 2010 8:09am CST
If fate is predetermined should our sins and all be blamed upon us . If it is so it should be done due to our fate . Is god playing with us . Or is fate in our hands that we can do as we like and according . And every things in our life is controlled by us . or else it that a system in which we will get payed according to our good peformace in our life. i am really confused by these thinkings please help me to come to a right way . pls help me
5 responses
@aldawn22 (224)
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
I think we are the one controlling the outcome in our life, if we did good things then the outcome will be good as well. Fate for me is all in our hands, it depends upon us how to control it.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
1 Jul 10
I dont believe in fate, i believe in wise thinking, fate is superstious
@LadyMarissa (12148)
• United States
9 Jun 10
I believe that fate brings us certain situations, but it's how we deal with what fate brings us that shapes our lives. God gives us certain situations in order for us to GROW in our spirit & our lives. I believe that WE shape our own destiny & fate just puts those building blocks in front of us!!! We have the CHOICE to follow the path that fate puts there; however, as we LEARN, we can CHOOSE the path that will shape our own destiny. Predestined things may happen, but it doesn't mean we have to ACCEPT them. I just consider them a pop quiz toward the FINAL EXAM!!!
• India
9 Jun 10
No man i dont think you can blamefor your miseries ,i think your mistakesare your own doings only
• India
9 Jun 10
i beleive we can meet many friends by fate and it may take us to unexpected turns in life.