If you didn't give hundred percent in a love relationship?

Saudi Arabia
June 9, 2010 4:08pm CST
Would you doubt if the other person has given his or her love to you if you won't give hundred percent in that relationship?
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@cheongyc (5072)
• Malaysia
10 Jun 10
To me, relationship is the toughest thing in this world. It's even tougher than our career. Because the most we can control is only 50% at any time and under any situation. So, it's hard to judge a person or ourselves is giving 100% to a relationship or not. But as long as we are sincere in a relationship, we should have faith in it and trust our partner until we found something wrong in it.
@cheongyc (5072)
• Malaysia
11 Jun 10
I agree that mutual understand and trust is important in any kind of relationship. But I always believe that we should do our best on our part. It's up to the destiny and fate to decide the outcome.
• Saudi Arabia
14 Jun 10
I do appreciate your comment. In relationship sometimes, we need strong mental power and not allowing our heart to rule our mind. We can not believe too much in destiny or fate all the time for the future is in our hands. We can control the outcome if we are mentally, emotionally, spiritually and physically powerful. When the going is tough, the tough gets going.
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• Saudi Arabia
10 Jun 10
Thanks so much, cheongyc. When we are sincere in a relationship,we tend to give hundred percent in it then we shall have faith and trust in that relationship. But there are situations where hundred percent are not given meaning something was held back as a result we have tendency of doubting if the other party is holding back their sincerity, faith or trust like we did. Hence, as long as we are giving hndred percent and are totally sincere in our relationship, we can have more faith and trust each other more. This apply to love, friendship or employee and employee relationship.
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• Philippines
9 Jun 10
I don't believe that you have to give your 100% in love. You always have to leave enough percent to yourself. Always remember, you can't love anybody if you don't know how to love yourself. If you want your relationship to work, love yourself first. Also love doesn't mean that it should be reciprocated. Love should be given without asking anything in return.
• Saudi Arabia
25 Jun 10
Thanks Carlynganda for your response. You are right to say that we can't give love if we do not have the stock of love ourselves. When we are in a relationship which can be love, employer, employee or friends if we didn't give 100% of our love and hold back some love, there is a chance that the person on the other end will also hold back some of love too. If we are really sincere, honest and truthful in our relationship and we don't feel that we had held back any of our feelings then it is considered as a 100% love. In life, everyone of us would want to love and be loved. We may not expect our love to be reciprocated but most of the time when we give love, we will usually receive love. For a love relationship to work, the feeling between the lovers has to be mutual. The lovers has to love each other although love should be unconditional. Thanks again and happy mylotting.
• Philippines
27 Jun 10
love begets love, friendship begets friendship..that would be the simplest explanation..
@_Honey_ (780)
• Philippines
12 Jun 10
Truth is, I still don't understand how people quantify their love. How can you say that you're giving a hundred percent and how can you say that you're just giving 50, 75, 80 or 99 percent of it. When you love someone, you try your best to make the person happy. You make him feel how special they are among anyone else. You try to help them in their personal matters as much as you can without growing them into too much dependent individuals. When you love, you try your best to be faithful and worth of your trust and not getting so gah gah over them if you discover them cheating on you. A relationship should be a two way relationship. Give it your best shot and make them feel responsible for their relationship too. If a couple really wants to make this out, they know the do's and don'ts. It's just to them if they'll observe it and practice it.
• Saudi Arabia
25 Jun 10
Thanks _Honey_ for your comment. When we love someone sincerely with all our hearts, faithfully, honestly and have not hold back any love that is considered 100% love. However, there are times when someone retain a certain amount of love within oneself then he or she will also doubt if the other party also hold back some love as he or she did. Therefore, it is recommendable to give our 100% love in a relationship and we will not have any doubt of the love of our partner. Have a nice day.