loving somebody really means marrying him
By roger_banger
@roger_banger (187)
India
June 11, 2010 7:47am CST
i dont think that true love always leads to great maried life,as loving is different from marriage as most people in todays time go for marriage just to prep up their bank account and there is nothing like love behind ,this is the sole reason for many people having extra maital affairs,which they cant do about,as they have to sing the song everyday"where is the love"?
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3 responses
@rastogisw (445)
• India
11 Jun 10
Only a true love with trust leads to happy married life, but some times people mistaken infatuation with true love.IN that case break up is the normal thing. That is love with trust only, which can bind two people together in one relationship and once the love or trust lost the relationship gone.
@dsplay5 (360)
• Bulgaria
11 Jun 10
You're right, nowadays many people marry for having extra material affairs... I just, I just can't understand, why should they try to make money by this way?! We can make money by many other ways? Maybe this is a very easy way, I don't know. To marry for someone, first of all you have to love yourself, you have to love the other, to love means to sacrifice you for the other. To marry for affairs is not loving! I'll stop, because I'm feeling I'm going out of control. Some of our biggest problems are the selfish, the not fed ego, it can't be feed, we're greedy and so on and so on... I stop! Have a nice day :)
@emerillus (467)
• Philippines
11 Jun 10
It is because of love that we marry a person, and keeping the love in marriage is a challenge as most of people nowadays tend to lose their love because of problems along the way. If it is true love, then there will always be respect and understanding between the couple and as long they keep on having constant assessment of their married life and discuss problems, then surely their love will remain. As for people having extra marital affairs, it is because they lost faith in their partner who is also maybe already tired of taking care of the other. That's how the other person will find someone who can take care of him/her better.
