have you ever faed a situaton like this????????/

Just remember don't lie. But do not answer. just say this.. it is better for you not to know than for me to lie to you.

Hi, baltor! I think it would probably be most effective to tell them all you won't be part of any secrets, so you don't want to be told anything you're not to share! It's beyond difficult to keep those insidious secrets!

As they are both adults and need to think for themselves, i would ask them not to tell me anything and that i do not want to get involved in their problem. But, as i love my mom the most in the world, i would probably tell her. TATA.

It is very hard to be in the middle You must be very diplomatic and say that you love them both the same and you can not always judge They are adults,well known and need to solve problems

I constantly face this situation with my parents, and it's not something that's fun to go through, I know. But I think the best thing to do, is just be honest. I'm closer to my mother, so I don't have any secrets from her, especially when it comes to what someone else has said about her, even if that person is my dad. Atleast that way, you're not letting down the person you're closer to by hiding things from them.

The best thing you can do is to stay out of it completely, don't let em tell you, and your father should not be doing that, and definitely should not be telling his own kid.

I have never been in a situation like this but I think I would say nothing but thell the one who has told me the thing, that the other one has askedme and that i really think they need to talk.