what should I do?

@Sven91 (30)
Indonesia
June 13, 2010 12:28am CST
Recently I have a crush with my friend who was older than me, but she seems not interested to be in a relationship as she always told me when we talk about relationship problems. Well, I want to get closer to her but she seems to make some distance with me. What should I do?
6 responses
Pplaya123
@Pplaya123 (126)
• United States
14 Jun 10
I suggest you take the risk, and even if it fails, you can still be friends right? No one said things had to be all awkward after.If I were you, I would take the risk but I would not over do things. Don't be all up on her. Give her some space so she doesn't think your creepy.
Sven91
@Sven91 (30)
• Indonesia
20 Jun 10
Yes you're right, thanks :D
varron
@varron (453)
• Philippines
13 Jun 10
ahhhm... express ypur feelings on her...no matter what.
Sven91
@Sven91 (30)
• Indonesia
13 Jun 10
Sure sure!! I will do that!! Thanks :)
rabajar
@rabajar (134)
• Philippines
13 Jun 10
Hmmm Just be yourself. Act as normal when she's around. Sometimes, if you are really eager to express your love, I friend my take a little distance as she's aware about what you feel for her. You should do the same thing you used to do.
Sven91
@Sven91 (30)
• Indonesia
13 Jun 10
Well that's a good idea, thanks !! :)
donbiz84
@donbiz84 (81)
• Indonesia
13 Jun 10
well I think whatever you try hard you must keep fire :-) keep goin and keep goin dont give up in in the middle way until you sure in your heart that you never get her love and you should try to search another woman who younger than you :-) Life is must go on and life has more option right??
Sven91
@Sven91 (30)
• Indonesia
13 Jun 10
Yes, you got a point here. I'll keep goin'. well at least I try first, if really I have no chance, I will try to find another woman. Maybe she is not my fated lover :) Thanks a lot, pal :)
myswirlyagelessmind
@myswirlyagelessmind (379)
• Philippines
13 Jun 10
what do you mean really by wanting to get closer to her? do you want to take your relationship to another level or a different one? i think, you should just be honest with her, tell her how you really feel and get her complete take on the issue. if she's really not interested there's nothing you can do about it.
Sven91
@Sven91 (30)
• Indonesia
13 Jun 10
oh yes, I want to be more than just a close friend. To become her lover. Sure I will find a time to tell her, thanks for the idea :)
kojimal81
@kojimal81 (24)
• Philippines
13 Jun 10
It is very simple.When we like a guy,we will not avoid you.Just a simple advice,if you want to keep her as your friend,forget about your feelings but if you want to take the risk of loosing her,go on with it.
Sven91
@Sven91 (30)
• Indonesia
13 Jun 10
I thought for a while and I guess I will try to take the risk. Life for me already so many things that are risky, but if there is still a little hope for me, I will try first. Thanks for the advice :)