How to know if your GF/BF truely loves you?
By papabear550
@papabear550 (41)
Philippines
June 13, 2010 4:51pm CST
Hello everyone I just got into this situation and I don't really know if she loves me or not, when she text me she's so cold, but when we were together she's sweet
mmm Does she loves me only when I'm around?By her side?
She have a lot of time with her friends than me..
Please help me on how to know if she really loves me thanks and Godblessed
anyway add me as your friend here in mylot I'm new ^_^
6 responses
@hbsalazar (34)
• United States
13 Jun 10
What do you mean when you say that when she texts you she's cold? Is it because she doesn't use smileys (eg. ^^, :), etc)? Is she formal rather than informal? If it's just this, I don't use smileys and even around friends I try to keep some air of formality. Emotion is a lot easier to transfer to someone while in person. I wouldn't be too scared if she doesn't use smileys. I can't really judge whether or not she loves you based on just what you said.
How often does she talk to you in person and online/text? If it's often and she makes time for you, she at least appreciates you in some way, shape, or form, more than likely.
@papabear550 (41)
• Philippines
13 Jun 10
she use smileys its not about the smileys.. she simple text me of good morning then she will reply after 1 hour or 2 but her reply is so short like "I'm going to Mall" then she will not reply again like that? I know she loves me but I have some doubt because there are some people who love only when their love is beside them
@hbsalazar (34)
• United States
13 Jun 10
She might just be a very blunt and short-winded person. I know I have a hard time texting, but most people do it all the time. I've noticed that most text messages (I've seen) are very short.
@vanity666 (258)
• Spain
13 Jun 10
maybe she's not too expressive by texting and shows better her feelings when she is by your side..i think the most important is the time you too are together, when you can really notice her love and affection for you.
@papabear550 (41)
• Philippines
13 Jun 10
that's what my best friend exactly said to me :)
Thank you for responding and giving me suggestion guys, yes the most important time is the two of us together, Thanks
@carlynganda (749)
• Philippines
13 Jun 10
always trust your instinct..if you have doubts..don't just ignore it..find a way to get your answers..we can't tell you whether she is toying with you or no..you're the one who knows her personally..so just talk to her and discuss this in a discrete manner with her..if you want to be in that relationship and you want to make it work..listen to what she is going to say..and decide..
@arreolabryan (856)
• Philippines
14 Jun 10
Don't try to know if she really loves you or not. The question is do you really love her. If you do you won't need to get the answer from your question. Because no matter what you won't need anything in return from her. Love is freely given away.
@breisa (165)
• New Zealand
14 Jun 10
Don't be confused, maybe she's just not the kind of person who is so expressive especially on text messages. NO! Screw text messages, because you know what, the real thing is so much better! You're lucky that your able to touch your GF for real. It's just a text message, so don't fuss so much about it. Your relationship with her is so much beyond that. It's not just composed of text messages you know! It's not like you have a long distance relationship! :D
Btw.. WE girls like to spend a little less time with our boyfriends so that they'll miss us more. :D
