5-years single...so lonely.. =(

The picture of my loneliness.. :( - haha that's the effect of being a single for 5 years.. ^__^
Philippines
June 17, 2010 5:38pm CST
I have been in my 1st & last relationship last 2004-2005.. after that, I don't enter in a relationship... This is happen because of lot of reasons... because I'm still studying that time when someone try to court me that's why I say no to them... and also, I am so afraid that someone will just cheat on me or if he's not.. maybe he will be force to go away from me just like my fist love did... or maybe because..I am not a "chick" type of girl..I am just a very simple, ordinary and plain little girl.. Well..I just post this discussion because I feel so lonely..and whenever I had this kind of feeling..I used to draw some sad pictures.. hahah...It's funny to think that because of the loneliness that I feel right now..I draw myself...I will upload it here so that you can see also... well, whenever I feel like this, I can't help but to draw anything that would reflect on what exactly what I feel...maybe this is my own way of coping up with my loneliness.. How about you? What did you do to cope up with certain problems specially with regards to emotions?
1 person likes this
8 responses
Ninaaah
@Ninaaah (93)
• Serbia And Montenegro
17 Jun 10
Don't worry, you will find someone. Time cures everything trust me. I think you just still can't forget some good memories about your last boyfriend. And about "chick", well I don't know how old are you, but if you're young than you have a lot of time to think about it and become chick if you want. And about me? Heh.. I've got a boyfriend, we are almost 2 years together bla bla that's a plain and usual story :P.
1 person likes this
starsailover
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
17 Jun 10
Hi Ninaah: I agree with you, there's nothing positive on worrying because of these situations. In fact, when we think a lot about this situation we forget to thanks for the love we receive everyday from our parents, friends, brothers, etc. Thanks for your answer. Have a nice day. ALVARO.
mhekhies16
@mhekhies16 (462)
• Philippines
18 Jun 10
haha thanks my dear ^__^ anyway..I'm only 22 yrs old now..
Ninaaah
@Ninaaah (93)
• Serbia And Montenegro
18 Jun 10
haha I thought you are so much younger than you really are.
med889
@med889 (5941)
•
18 Jun 10
I think it is better to hang out with friends instead of always feeling lonely and in no relationship at all, a company always proves good to people and instead of thinking of loneliness think of the many things you can do without being in a relationship with someone. Maybe when you get in a relationship after that you will never regret the moments you have spend with your life doing what you wanted.
1 person likes this
LetranKnight25
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
18 Jun 10
LOve can wait, a lot of people are in to relationship and ends up with the wrong kind of people. i believe having so many friends can help you make the right choice in having the right kind of guy. for now, i live my life, with no boundaries or limitations or compromise, i live FREE i used to think of having a gf but why if i can enjoy my life and not spend a cent lurking in that bad past.
mhekhies16
@mhekhies16 (462)
• Philippines
19 Jun 10
@ med- thanks for a nice advice! ^_^ maybe, I'm just exaggerating my feelings...yeah, you are right,it's better to spend times with my friends than to think of anything else.. thanks again :) @letran- thanks also ;p yeah...true love can wait...but how long? :(
TheRealDawn
@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
23 Jun 10
Dealing with emotional problems... Well when I was about 13, I got a really bad spanking by my father for teasing my sister. It was humiliating and way out of proportion. I swore that he would never see me cry again. So how I dealt with my emotions is by holding them in. Which is not a good thing. I am learning how to let them out again...
mhekhies16
@mhekhies16 (462)
• Philippines
24 Jun 10
Nice share my dear...sometimes, we can't avoid bad thing to happen.. well, the important thing here is how we cope up with a certain situation.. About how you compensate before, you can't blame yourself because your only a child that time. Thanks for sharing. :)
LetranKnight25
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
18 Jun 10
Hello mhek, like you i like drawing but not because am depressed but it's a good hobby. with regards to emotions i just sleep with it doesn't bother thinking of anything else. and that's why i have mylot it's because i tend to use this site as a shelter for my problems. You know, you're young, it's a good thing you are focusing more on your studies. Love can wait, and am sure you will have time to see and choice the men that you deserve, you're still young, live your life.
mhekhies16
@mhekhies16 (462)
• Philippines
19 Jun 10
thanks letran.. :) good for you, you can still sleep whenever you have a problem..hehe yah, mylot.com is a very nice site that can able to be a shelter for us. ^__^
sathya264
@sathya264 (174)
• India
17 Jun 10
first of all you are very cute.and you are not lonely .mylot friends are always will be there for you so keep responding.your art is excenllent.you have done a good job.the girls picture so cute like you.take care.
sathya264
@sathya264 (174)
• India
18 Jun 10
thats my wish my dear. "mhekhies" what does it mean.can u let me know tell me.
mhekhies16
@mhekhies16 (462)
• Philippines
18 Jun 10
my family & friends used to call me that way... it pronounce as mekis. but mhekhies is not my real name..it is just my nick name :)
mhekhies16
@mhekhies16 (462)
• Philippines
18 Jun 10
hahah thanks for the compliment my dear...it helps me to reduce pain inside of me :)
juggerogre
@juggerogre (1653)
• Philippines
18 Jun 10
I play DotA. Especially when I'm really mad. I can easily channel my anger in DotA and this is when I usually own my enemies. Its also my way of releasing my frustrations, sadness and other negative emotions. Sometimes it doesn't work so I just sleep or run around or just post here in mylot and ask for your advice. About you having single for 5-years, I'm pretty sure you will find someone sooner or later. You're still young. Just finish first everything you have to do and love will definitely come.
mhekhies16
@mhekhies16 (462)
• Philippines
19 Jun 10
Thanks for the advise :) actually, we're just the same..hehe.. i use to play dota sometimes...but not whenever Im sad...I just play it whenever I'm in the mood.. :)
w1986114
@w1986114 (158)
• China
18 Jun 10
hi,,friend,first,thank u for adding me as your friend,i am so happy.second,i'll tell u how i deal with my emotion problem.one year ago,someone appealled to me,at that time,i thought i will be together with him,however,nothing happened,cuz i had no confidence in love and i also thought first love was so important,i only wanna hold someone's hand unless i am pretty sure,so i killed that "relationship"before it exists,very sad,huh.after that, i can't sleep well every night, i thought maybe i can't forget that guy forver,but after 4 months' sadness, i overcame that feeling.of course,your situation are not alike me,but all i wanna tell is time can cure everything,and i believe one day you can finally come out of that realationship and come across your real mr. right.finally,i am sorry, cuz i am not good at english,so i can't express everything i wanna say,but i really wish u be happy everyday.
mhekhies16
@mhekhies16 (462)
• Philippines
19 Jun 10
thanks my friend for sharing your story.. ^_^ you're not good in English but I appreciate your effort to give me an advise.. at least you can able to say what's on your mind... anyway...mylot.com will help you a lot to improve your English knowledge and speaking..promise! hehe... Love you friend!! ^__^
starsailover
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
17 Jun 10
hi mhekhies: When I feel depressed I try to liberate myself of these emotions with art. I write poetry and this is good for me. I forget the pain and I remember that there are beautiful things to stay alive, that I have positive things just by myself and that I love me and also my family love me. I hope it's the same with you. I love your post and you are beautiful. You don't have to worry if you haven't found the one. It's normal but what should matters to you is to be happy and happinness don't depend on someone else but you. Thanks for asking us this question. Have a nice day. ALVARO
mhekhies16
@mhekhies16 (462)
• Philippines
18 Jun 10
thanks for the compliment my dear... well...sometimes in our lie, we can't help but to feel this way.. you love writing poetry too? nice...before I used to write poetry (when I was a teenager hehe) thanks for your comments :)