How much pressure do you have to handle in your life?
By maggiewinner
@maggiewinner (106)
Canada
June 17, 2010 6:07pm CST
Since I got married, I start to feel I have to shoulder a lot of responsabilities in my new family.........How do you feel about your life, if you are also a married woman?
6 responses
@katsmeow1213 (28716)
• United States
18 Jun 10
Not only am I married, but I have 5 kids. I do sometimes get tired of having to be responsible for everything. It's exhausting! I can't do much about it though.. except I have decided that once my 3 cats have passed on, I won't be getting any more animals. That will be 1 less responsiblity for me.
@durgabala (1359)
• India
18 Jun 10
Having 5 kids was during my mom's days, People in my country have one or 2 kids. May be people now have more kids in villages. Managing a house with 2 kids itself is so difficult, I can imagine how difficult it is to manage house with 5 kids and pets.
@Vnyard (286)
• Philippines
19 Jun 10
I'm not married yet but the pressure I'm getting is way more than the normal or should I say average. But as I have always been reminded. God doesn't give you anything you can't handle plus a bonus of learning and growing stronger and more mature in life...
@sender621 (14889)
• United States
18 Jun 10
There always seem to be some kind of pressure in life to deal with. When you get married you have the pressures of building a relationship together. When you become a parent, you have the pressures of raising a child. In your job, you face the pressures of doing your job in the best way you can. Take a deep breath and take each day one at a time. The pressures will lessen as you face them head on.
@durgabala (1359)
• India
18 Jun 10
I was also very scared of shouldering responsibilities when I got married, but my MIL came to my rescue. She taught me everything. Now after 8 years I feel its just yesterday I got married. The 2 kids do keep me busy. Now life is so full.
@mauie0918 (337)
• Philippines
18 Jun 10
Well, I'm a working Mom and I know that responsibilities are getting tougher along the way. But as for me, I enjoy being a Mom, sometimes it's like I'm going crazy but it's fun! It's one of the spices of life! It's fun and tough because I should know how to manage my family and most especially myself. It's also a challenge that I should let my children grow that people will respect and admire them and also that people will admire me! Of course, we like that our children will reach their success and as a Mom, we're going to give it as long as it's for their own good but limitations are still there! Responsibilities are getting heavier and heavier but I must see to it that I have still time for myself, a balance for life!



