i hate the friendship without trust

China
June 18, 2010 9:04am CST
i look her as a real a true friend,the best friend. but she never say anything to me, i am very very sad.(???)
3 responses
• China
19 Jun 10
Friendship is formed on the willing of both. If you believe she is your best friend, like her and trust her, then you can just do what you want to do---without aiming at return or even asking anything from the other. If she likes you, too, your friendship is going. But if she has no feeling on you, upon your own heart. Just like a boy and a girl, who can make them both fall into love? Both, too.
19 Jun 10
no its not important i belielve...if i care for someone and htrust him \her...he \she is my friend irrespective of the fact whether other person considers me his/her friend
• China
19 Jun 10
ok,i got it.both are right.i believe we are the best friends.so i will go on without aiming at return or want something or even everything from her!! thank you Gloriapzh:) Hi,cassisto,to tell the truth, i can not understand ur meaning deeply.but thank you all the same.:)
@abj163 (1037)
• India
18 Jun 10
its a very serious thing about your life .....u see her as a true friend and she is nod responding you....getting sad is not the solution.........its time to show some energy to show ur talent.......impress her by studies if u r a student .....or impress by ur work if u r having a job....i think she is just using u......and the thing is u r not so useful for her so she is responding u well means she is avoiding u...... tell her that...... IF U DONT LIKE ME THEN HATE ME BUT PLEASE DONT AVOID ME BECAUSE IT HURTS MORE.. if then also she doesn't responses well then leave her .....and just brighten ur carrier and do something like she will regret for avoiding u...... all d best happy mylotting
• China
18 Jun 10
thank you abj163.thanks for all ur advise. yes all'd best and have a good time.:)
@jose431 (164)
• India
27 Jul 10
Now, I really know that best friends are great enemy forever, when this situation came to me.I thought she is my real and true friend in my life,sometime I even think that I can die for her.Now I am very sad to her because I never expect that she will do like that to me,with small miss understanding she left me alone with full of tear in eyes.so my dear friends, a friends should be need trust in your heart and never go in deep relation at last it rally hurt you.That is why I hate friend without trust.