not titled disscusion, because ...

@wmraul (2552)
Bucharest, Romania
June 18, 2010 10:58am CST
.. I would love to have title suggestions from you, inspired from what is written bellow. ***** Well, is not necessary about this site. I am inspired to post this because of a message I got in one recent disscusion of LetranKnight. I do not know about you,people, but I was and still am member in various social / community based sites. In some of thm for some long time now. And on all where there was a chance to meet someone, I did not missed the chance. Well, I missed some, in fact, but what I mean is that I wanted to meet those members who were geographically cose enough (from my own country, actually). From the people I meet, about a quarter are people who have also joined international "overseas" meetings. So, as I have ask them for details durring the time, I can say I have a pretty good idea about what is or what may become a relationship started online and transferred in real world. Mean, often is not something to be recommended to be done. Hey, don't get me wrong !!! Not all relations started online and continued offline are to be a failure. It all depends on what are the both side espectations from the relation .. However. Many of you will not like it, the next line: Majority of people trying hard to meet in RL "friends' from VR and the purpose is, at the end, a ... physical relation. That is ok until we speak about online communities from dating or dating-related sites. Which MyLot IS NOT ! Then, is recommandable to organize or participate to real life meetings for online comunities members ? YES ! But with something clear in mind: DO NOT build espectations, let it always be just a simple "let's enjoy a beer and then forget all" meetings. My 2 cents ..
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@zralte (4176)
• India
18 Jun 10
As a happily married woman, I am not looking for relationship. However, I would be interested to meet someone I met online if I had known them in the virtual world for sometime, AS a friend. I think you can pretty much guess what the other person is going to be like if you've known them for sometime, chat with them or may be discuss about things in myLot, etc. I agree with you there about expectations. Best to keep it low key and prepare to be disappointed. That way, you won't get disappointed when you meet the person and he/she is not what you imagined.