f o r g i v n e e s s.......
By busybee10
@busybee10 (3186)
India
June 19, 2010 8:13am CST
Do you have the broad mind to forgive persons on their doing harm to you.
How far you support this....
7 responses
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
19 Jun 10
I don't let hatred lived in my heart.
I always try to forget and forgive people who had done wrong/mistakes against me.
living in peace without an enemy is better,than walking with fear who will stab you at the back.
Forgiving is not easy ,especially if someone who done mistake is our loved ones.
It is hard to believe and accept that we are betrayed and hurt by people that we love the most.
But,that love also will give us courage to forgive them.
Forgive those who has sinned against us,so God will also forgive our sins.
Happy weekend 
@busybee10 (3186)
• India
19 Jun 10
Your thoughts followed by transparent in forgiving a person is highly appreciable. By words we can write so many good things but coming practically to forgive needs lot of understanding and willingness.Your thoughts are highly appreciable and the expression 'Forgive those who has sinned against us,so God will also forgive our sins',has really moved me.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
20 Jun 10
Thanks for the appreciation.
And,you are right,by words we can write good things,but in reality,it would be a little hard to do.
But,my faith thought me to "walk my talk".
What i said is what i do.
The Bible tell us the God's law,and,it is clearly written on one of God' commandment,
forgive those who offend us.
We asks forgiveness from God each time we pray,but we can't forgive the people who had sinned against us,..how can God forgive us,if we can't do what we are asking from HIM.
Have a good weekdays ahead 
@busybee10 (3186)
• India
20 Jun 10
Forgiveness is great than anything in this world. All the spiritual preachers and spiritual theories mention about this and also stresses on this act.
But practically operating this act in our daily walk of life is very very difficult.Because, the sins and troubles one gave cannot be forgiven at all,it is only God who has to decide.
@busybee10 (3186)
• India
17 Jul 10
Yes,you are at liberty to take your own decisions,because it is you ho have to deal with the people....
@survajar_62 (121)
• Indonesia
9 Jul 10
I can forgive someone, but not forget. Forgiving means what he or she did won't be making any hurt anymore in my heart. Because the bleeding has stopped and the new flesh has covered it up. How long I can forgive some one depends on what and how bad I was hurt by that time. Sometimes the person who did the bad thing to me doesn't get any guilty feeling, it requires longer period for me to forgive. Why I can forgive but not forget ? For example, some one stole my stuff but he or she does beg me to forgive, I will do it, but next time I'd be aware to put my stuffs carefully so it won't be gone by some naughty hand :)
@busybee10 (3186)
• India
10 Jul 10
Good thoughts...That should be the spirit of dealing anything in life.You have very nicely explained about forgiveness.
Yes,as yo say in some cases we can forgive but not forget...
Yes,as yo say in some cases we can forgive but not forget...
@busybee10 (3186)
• India
17 Jul 10
These types of tricks will be played by crocked persons,hence you should be cautious and study his/her nature -which gives you their real nature.Hence decide yourself how to behave with them.
If I was there in your place I would totally avoided him/her.
If I was there in your place I would totally avoided him/her. @Comagirl (146)
• Spain
15 Jul 10
Because forgiveness is a value judgement, and can also never undo what is previously done or said, it's value is likewise subjective. A more realistic aim for me I feel is to achieve ACCEPTANCE... acceptance that some things never change, what has happened cannot be undone, and some people behave badly towards other people. If someone harms you, your only justice can be to not add to and perpetuate the harm, either to yourself, back to the perpetrator in revenge, or rippling outwards to stress those you rant and rave at. Far better, if you can, to swallow the hurt, breathe deeply, accept, and let it go.
Yes, this is an ideal. I live in the real world too and I get hurt and angry and upset as well :-) This is just what I would like to aim towards as a goal.
@busybee10 (3186)
• India
17 Jul 10
Your thoughts on forgiveness is highly transparent - I appreciate them.
After all life here is something which not understandable these days,because people behave totally in a negative way,any how we have to use our judgments to cope up with the society.@busybee10 (3186)
• India
5 Jul 10
OK-that is great. Good quality.It is only my advice,do not forgive what ever comes to your side use your intelligence as many people take it for ranted and may make undue advantage of your forgiveness.
Good quality.It is only my advice,do not forgive what ever comes to your side use your intelligence as many people take it for ranted and may make undue advantage of your forgiveness.
@varun02121985 (45)
• India
19 Jun 10
I would forgive any harm done to me provided they feel sorry for it!! . I would never forgive the one who hurts my close and loved ones!!Coz i care for others
@busybee10 (3186)
• India
19 Jun 10
Your are right - forgiving someone is not that easy but we should take our own decision and come to a conclusion because we ourselves only can judge the opposite persons nature. Good thought.
