have you hurt too much?did someone hurt you too much????

hi jemaries..........your problems seems to be very serious for u.....but just be cool stop thinking over it..........if she said something bad against u and u just listened it....then its a good thing that u were so patient at that time .....i think she is a jealous type of girl and u r a simple type of girl thats why u r taking it so seriously....just ignore her and concentrate in ur work......dont change yourself for anyone else......just be yourself.....and if u have done a mistake then u should apologize for that and chapter is over and if u havent done anything wrong then u should go to that person ask her what u did ??? hope this will help u happy mylotting

I think you should not get too affected by what other people has to say about you. I mean, if that person knows you well to the point of judging you, then I guess it is more fitting that you get hurt, then you learn from your mistakes, apologize and try to not do it again. But if she's just a colleague, someone who is very judgmental and more of an insecure person who just can't move on after you made that mistake, then I guess you ask her straight forward whatever problem she has with you because I think it is the only way to feel better once the problem and try to solve it as soon as possible before it causes further damage and hurt. Try to ask for your manager's help also. Since you can't accept the bad things she says about you, try to reflect upon the things she said and the things that you must have been doing wrong for her to say that. If it means you have to change, then do what you think is right. But first things first, talk to the very person who's hurting you right now because as unfair as it is, sometimes the ones who hurt you are also the ones who makes you feel better in the end.

hi jemaires I am so sorry that one of your coworkers did such a mean thing to you. She should remember we all make mistakes and not take it personally like that.I wou ld sit her down and ask her what did I ever do to you, that You feel you can be so rude and hurt me like you have? Maybe you just overreacted or you believed in vicious gossip about me? Do you still want to be friends,'then lets shake hands and forget the past. Tell her that because you have to work in the same department you want to heal the breach bwtween the two of you.

Hi, jemaries. Don't deal with this girl anymore. And ask your supervisor to move you to another department. I hope that you will get some relief from this girl. She seems to be a big pain! Remember what goes around comes back around... This girl should be careful about whom she mistreats. She never knows what may could be in store for her down the line.

There was someone who was backbiting me a lot and this caused some really nasty effect on myself, I had to justify myself everytime and it was so strange where you had to justify for something you are not, and it hurts when your ones do not believe entirely on you when this should have been the case.

I'm sorry that you had to take all those words.I wouldnt mind when someone close to me like my friends,loved ones hurts me----you dont expect me to be calm when it comes to men who are strangers they got no right to criticize me in any way so they would be sorry for messing up with the wrong guy later.I would never loose my temper or show any signs of hatred directly on a woman no matter how bad she is...i just keep it to myself and share it with my friends when the situation demands .You have done the right thing by staying calm...you could have burst out into anger but you didnt which shows you have some respect for women. "Lost Oppurtunities and Spoken Words can be never be taken back".So be wise when you speak to others----else you mind end up hurting them. great day.

For me if you forgive him you accept it but if not okey with you pray to Jehovah God that he can cure your heart so that you feel better.

hey jemaries, imo, you shouldnt think much about it, we are humans and we make mistakes. some things to think about too is that people have different attitudes and characteristics, shes just one of those hard to handle ones or people who are frank or some kind of that. another to think is that you made a mistake and you should learn from it and do your best to prevent it and another is that its just one of the bad things that has happened in life, think of the good times, there are good times too =) lastly, try patching up things with her or just forget what happened and act like a friend once again. she might see that everything is fine but if she doesnt, then it will take quite some time.

Hi jemaries, i`m sorry to hear that. yeah people sometimes never thought other`s feeling. maybe for your coworker what she did is not to much but in reality it hurts you so much. all i can suggest is just let it flow, even it hard. if you always keep this feeling the only person that is hurt is only you and you will not get better. Believe me, people like that will get what she deserved.