have you experience waking up and felt so empty and alone?

@zsarhea (302)
Austria
June 20, 2010 11:10pm CST
I woke up today feeling empty and alone..well im living alone and i miss having someone on my side...i have a daughter (shes staying with my parents,going to be 3 years old this year)and i didnt had relationships after i discovered that im pregnant with her so its almost 4 years now since i had a relationship...I just realized this from the past few days and until now...i wanna spend time with someone...i even had tears in my eyes realizing that i missed having someone...you know do the simple stuff that couples do,like having coffee,saying i love you before sleeping and before getting up...its nice to be single but its nicer to be with someone who will love me...i feel so empty and alone now...dont know what to do to cheer myself up...i don talk and chat to someone online but i think its not enough...help!!can anyone give em advice?
5 responses
@jaderamirez (1029)
• Philippines
23 Sep 11
I understand your situation. I am also experiencing the same thing, my bf is away from me and I miss him so much. We need a man to brighten up our day and they serve as an inspiration to us. You just pray and ask God to give you someone who will brighten up your day and will really love you. Before I found my serious relationship, my former boy friends were all cheaters and those guys made me cry. But, when I beg for God to give me a man that I can share my life with and who will love me, He gave it to me. God is always here for us he knows what we need, you can call Him anytime. Cheer up, God Loves You!
@sanijas83 (270)
• Latvia
19 Jun 11
There are definitely things that can cheer you up, meeting people, your little daughter, your parents, other people who are dear for you. Maybe you have already found some heart of treasure. I believe you are a nice person and you will have someone special in your life.
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
21 Jun 10
My boyfriend is living far away and waiting for me to join him in Puerto Rico. My daughter, her husband and my granddaughter live with me. However, with all these people in my home there are many times I feel very lonely. I have my house for sell hoping once its sold then I will be able to be with my boyfriend again. I think you need to find things to do that make you happy. I like to write, so I write poetry and stories, make candles, bake and garden. I keep myself busy each and everyday to help prevent me from getting lonely. If you keep yourself busy throughout the day you will feel less lonely and you won't even think about the fact that you are alone. Good luck and hope this helps you.
• Philippines
21 Jun 10
Hang out with your friends. Call them up and just hang out.
• United States
21 Jun 10
Hey zsarhea, It's okay to feel lonely or to feel sad and empty every once in a while just as it's okay to feel stressed or anxious about a big event. It's feelings like these that help us put our life into perspective and figure out what is missing. If these feelings keep reoccurring on a daily basis for an extended period of time, then that's when there's a larger issue in hand, and you should seek outside (preferably professional) help. I think you should probably start doing things that you enjoy and socialize with others, now that you're daughter is growing up. It's human nature to want to feel connected to someone else (trust me, we all get that feeling). Don't let it get you down! Life is wonderful. Make new friends and you never know, you might just meet someone worth your time. Just don't close up to any opportunities, because you never know where they will take you. :)