My Ex is my Stalker
By krischine
@krischine (269)
Philippines
June 21, 2010 9:25pm CST
I had a boyfriend before and I break up with him in last 2 years ago. I thought he accept the reality, that we are not for each other. In that year I met a guy and became my new boyfriend until now. Those past 2 years, I'm avoiding my ex because he used to stalked in me. I couldn't go out shopping in malls because I know he is there watching me. He used to call me everyday but I always rejected his call, until such time I made a decision to change my number because I don't want him to contact me. I'm happy with my new boyfriend and I love him so much, I don't want to messed up with my boyfriend just because of my ex.
Then last week I receive a message from my ex boyfriend through my email, he was asking in what company am I working because he keeps asking his friends if they knew where am I. But I did not response to his message because I don't want him to stalked at me again.
Why do guys won't give up easily with their ex?
5 responses
@zsarhea (302)
• Austria
22 Jun 10
Experiencing the same thing at the moment,hahaha.I cant even go out alone because im scared that he might be outside my apartment so what i do is i leave the house so early and work early then go home early,poor me,hahaha.Guys wont give up easily because of their pride and because its the girl who broke up with them but if they are the one who cut the relationship off then its easy for them,right?stupid a**h***s,hahahaha
@krischine (269)
• Philippines
22 Jun 10
Yes your right, I hate being watch everytime. He has no right of doing such stupid things, it always bothers me for I can't go out anywhere.
@kukueye (1759)
• Malaysia
22 Jun 10
Dude is sickco, is he harassing your and dangerous.Maybe your need to call police or authority to chat with him.Strangly i have a friend who ex girlfriend stasked him for like almost 1 years, appearing without warning outside his house and waiting for him.Initially crying and asking for another chance and such.(alredy 3rd breakup with him) later become more agressive and appearing in his work place and chatting with his friends and giving false rumours like he is all wrong and such. LAter friend no choise ask his pastor help to talk to her.After that , she stop all those nonsense.But once awhile will see her in bustop and such.Her eyes are full of hatred.
@colega17 (312)
• Romania
22 Jun 10
That's terrible. I can't believe that 2 years weren't enough to forget about his loss. I guess it's quite annoying. Maybe you did something bad to him and that's why he keeps bothering you....or maybe you've been good to him and now he doesn't understand it's over. Did you ever try talking to him? Explain him you're no longer interesed in him? It looks like he has emotional problems or something....
@juggerogre (1653)
• Philippines
22 Jun 10
This could happen to anyone, girl or boy. I think your boyfriend loves or obsessed with you too much that he cannot let you go. Good thing he's only stalking you and not doing anything worse. Just ignore him. If he really loves you then he should have let you go a long time ago.
@iseulbi (5)
• Philippines
22 Jun 10
did your boyfriend knows that your ex always following you and stalked you,... im sure if he knows he will give him a big blow of punch so that he will stop... just kidding... honestly, your ex's really annoying and i guessed it makes you pissed when the time he stalked you... what a big stalker... he must accept the fact, the truth, the reality that you and him are already over... he must to learn to move on... its 2yrs already.. what a big love of him...
