have you ever...???

@adequee (204)
Malaysia
June 23, 2010 4:00pm CST
have you ever tell someone that you love her/him but fall on the deaf ear..??? have you ever wanted a friend but nobody call's you back?? have you ever feel lonely and nobody seem to care?? have you ever want to fix yourself but people tend to see you overacted?? your life is empty??..nobody to turn to!
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@meirhu (363)
• Israel
24 Jun 10
What you describe here is unfortunately very very common. Isn't it a shame that we don't LEARN about how to treat friends, how to keep friends, how to make friends in school Of course we all do it, but ackwardly - right ? This is the 21st century. Isn't it about time that we had an educational program that could HELP us ? We have to learn how to fly an airplane don't we. Why shouldn't we learn how to interact with people instead of guessing ? What we need is a "School of Love" I've started one. Want to join in ?
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@adequee (204)
• Malaysia
26 Jun 10
I'll join it!
@rosie230 (1696)
23 Jun 10
Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes This is exactly how I see things sometimes. I have actually been told that I am a drama queen, because of my reactions to different things. Truth is, I am a very sensitive and emotional person, and I seem to be easily hurt or let down. Right now I have problems in my relationship, and I have no one to turn to. I have to deal with this on my own, and put on a happy face from day to day, just so that no one knows any different. Truth is I am in love with someone that I don't think loves me back anymore, and I am putting up with things for the sake of having just a little happiness in my life, because I know that leaving him, would break me in two, and I am not strong enough to deal with that.
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@rosie230 (1696)
25 Jun 10
yep... pretty sad really huh
@clocks123 (1225)
• United States
23 Jun 10
my answer to all your questions is a resounding yes, yes, yes. in this life, we will find people or a person like this toward us. we don't need those kind of people in our lives. they especially are not our friends. why would we want them to be. there are good people too. you will find them.
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@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
24 Jun 10
That normally happens to a lot of us, sweetie. It can either change or we get used to the idea. Whether we are loved back, making friends or not or feel empty, we cannot chance ourselves for others to like. They like what they see and that is the end of it. TATA.
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• Malaysia
24 Jun 10
yes i have, to all of those...but when i struck ground bottom, the only thing that i could rely on was the fact that i couldn't possibly feel any lower than that. so i started to climb back up again.. it takes a lot of perseverance and self motivation to do things alone...i hope that i wouldn't have to go through something like that again..
• Malaysia
24 Jun 10
• Philippines
23 Jun 10
I have told someone I loved them, but he was numb. I loved him more, and he loved me back. I felt lonely sometimes, and no one to turn to to ease my loneliness, but I decided I need to be happy for myself. If others cannot fill up my cup of happiness, I'll fill them up myself.
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@clocks123 (1225)
• United States
7 Aug 10
yes, i say yes, to all of the above. i am glad i found out how those particular individuals are toward me. i don't want them as a friend. they are not friends and i am glad to be rid of them. it does hurt and these feelings have come and gone all throughout my life. i am thankful for the good people and they are out there. don't give up
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
24 Jun 10
Yes, i have been there. I hope u are not expericing this but if u are , Be STRONG, things do get better.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
25 Jun 10
Please don't think that you are alone in this situation, because you aren't at all. I don't think that there is a person alive that has never felt the way that you feel right now. It is honestly those dark times in our lives that will help us to see that the people that we care about are there for us in some way throughout all the time in our lives. There are times that you think you are alone, but before too long, your friends will come back to you.
@anil78650 (177)
• India
26 Jun 10
Ya sometime I feel the same thing like no one is near me, everyone is on their own life, no one care about me, and that time I only thought the good time of my life, and that time give a joy and a hope of going forward in my life......Its true that eveyry had a time when they think that the world or the people he know is didn't care about them........but sooner or later the have to over come it because life is like a highway............