first time..

India
June 24, 2010 12:38am CST
How did you feel when you proposed the one you loved for the first time? Did you know what answer to expect? Did you imagine what would happen if your lover said no? Did you dread anything? Did you feel ecstatic after she said yes to you or feel really bad and depressed when she said no..? Was your proposal really special?
10 responses
@abhi000 (235)
• India
29 Jul 10
I will no tell directly to her.I will imagine myself that if i tell directly what will be her answer to me.If she say no,for the first time i will be ashame to face with her and after sometime again i will say i love you very much and till now i didn't found girl like you and you are perfect for me please you can understand my love.Then at that time she will naturally except my love and my work is successful.
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• Philippines
24 Jun 10
i had experienced that before and that was one of the most unforgettable experience in my life because i got busted by the one i love when i told him how i really feel about him. i did that because i thought that if won't do that i would just loose my chance and i would just regret it for the rest of my life. it was devastating not because i am not expecting that he would reject me but because it was simply that way,,.. but now i just laugh at m self whenever i remember that moment. i was young before that was why,. anyway i learned a lot form that experience. :)
• India
24 Jun 10
well hope you have moved on in life. And i am sorry about your experience....I too was rejected by the one i loved ..i proposed to her after two years of being together...
• Philippines
25 Jun 10
yes i have moved on a bit.. thanks.. hope you too.. :) we all ahve our shares of things like these
@krnavtr (285)
• India
27 Jul 10
I feel happy to propose the one i love as well as feel scare thinking that she might reject my proposal.I will aspect the answer to be yes but if its opposite than i will once more try.If my proposal gets success than i will be very happy and i will promise her that i will never leave her alone throughout her life.My proposal was not very special,not very tough but it was OK compared to other proposals who took time.
• India
28 Jul 10
yes i know how happy one would be if one's proposal is accepted!
• Philippines
21 Jul 10
Being a girl, I don't know how it feels to propose. Hehe... But I know how it feels to say "yes" to someone I really love. It's magical! I've also experienced waiting for someone to confess his love for me, though I know that he really was in love with me. It's exciting, but I also felt afraid that he might not do it at all and yes... I almost gave up all my hopes. So if you really love her, no time is more perfect than now. =) Of course, there is a possibility of a "no", but believe me... when guys get hurt by being rejected, we also get hurt, especially when we know that the guy really loves us, but we can't find ways to reciprocate the feeling.
• India
21 Jul 10
Wow i hope it does because when my girlfriend said no to me .. she didn't call me for like a couple of months...
@juggerogre (1658)
• Philippines
24 Jun 10
When I said what I feel for my first girlfriend I'm really not expecting any answers from her immediately. But still I'm very nervous. Its possible that I get dumped. But I said to her. And I was correct that I won't get an answer immediately. I think I have waited for about 2 months before she said yes to me. I was really happy back then that I shouted really loud.
• India
24 Jun 10
wow two months is a very long time for me...i wonder if my gf had said no to me after two months i would have definitely freaked out...
• India
24 Jun 10
Hi, I don't know the exact feeling as I never proposed to a girl. But the few ones who proposed me may feel quite good, I can tell. As of me, I felt good at first but then I also felt a terrible burden, an obligation of some kind. I was quite uncertain about everything, yet I felt elated. Now that I am single I amuse myself thinking about those adolescent affairs. Teenage love is always wonderful. It may or may not last, but it always makes you more mature and sensible. Thanks. God bless you
• India
24 Jun 10
wow it must feel special to know that your wanted by someone. I guess it must feel kinda good. Teenage love is usually infatuation but that can lead to anything more worse also...
@advokatku (4036)
• Indonesia
24 Jun 10
I never directly said that love, before I can convince myself that she really loves me. Thus, when I say the word love, I can already predict the answer his.
• India
24 Jun 10
pretty confident you are . i can't wait for that long because i am afraid that someone else would propose her and she would say yes to them...
@pwnson (151)
• India
29 Jul 10
For the first time in my dismal life I feel love flow in my heart the same heart once thought cold and lifeless fills with glorious joy and happiness because of that man. Who spirit is full of passion his eyes that's shine like sapphire star fill with warmth and beauty. A smile that bring happiness in my sad existence. I have never known love until now because of the way he touched my heart took hold my depressed soul and showed me the beauty of life's wonder everything that i thought impossible all seems to be within my grasp. I see everything in a new light because of something i thought unworthy to feel to feel love tender kiss and i bask in it beauty.
• India
28 Jul 10
Yes I too have experienced on it. I have proposed a guy who was highly educated comparing to me , I was so depressed wheather he will say yes or no. But I cannot imagine, I was frusted by happiness, I felt everything dancing around me when he said yes. My proposoal so so special for him, he was really happy and told me that there is somebody who loves him. They really respected my feelings towards him. That day was very lucky and unforgatable day in my life ,still I remember.
@anil78650 (177)
• India
27 Jun 10
I didn't say directaly.......but is I say that direct the I will feel like I have won the war or I get whatever I want in my life...........so I can say that it feel very awesome.......