Beyond Facebook - Specially For Parents

Singapore
June 24, 2010 4:24am CST
I think this article could bring about more awareness for parents here. It is not my hope to discourage parents to discourage or ban your children from having a Facebook or any other social networking site accounts but to every remind every one here, the importance of establishing an open two way communication channel. I can see that it can be quite daunting handling our children when they do not see things at our adult levels. But, we must never give up or give in to failures as they (children) can really be harmed in a way which we can never imagined possible. Be understanding and not dogmatic with our knowledge. Be helpful but not too meddlesome or intrusive into the privacy. They may not be ready for what is to come but we must try to let them see that our love for them have a point and that is their well being is first on every parent's list. Let them see your love and concern for they are our future and I just do not see anyone doing a better job than us parents. Parents - You may want to share with other parents here on how you had gone about coping and convincing your child that he/she needs you with these decisions on Facebook or other social networking sites. Children - You may want to share just how you would your parents help or react when you join these social networking sites. What do you see that your parents do not and share it here. I feel that there's much to learn from these exchanges, so do feel free to contribute all you want. Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1289070/Facebook-pressure-The-horrifying-week-I-spent-spying-11-year-old-daughter.html
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@med889 (5940)
24 Jun 10
I heard a lot of negative things on facebook and I think this site should only be reserved for people who know how to use it accordingly instead of using it as if they had never been in any social site ever and even misuse it. I hate when I see people adding others who they do not even know then publish their pictures all around on the site, They should be more aware of the possible dangers they can encounter though.
• Singapore
25 Jun 10
med889, I wouldn't say that Facebook is to be reserved for certain people but I think its users should treat it as a tool to network with actual friends, relatives, parents or siblings who they know offline and in real life. It should never be treated like a online matchmaking or friendship making tool where there is so much private and personal details at stake here in Facebook and other social networking sites. I am sure there are proper sites for the aforementioned. I just feel that people should understand and realize this.
@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
25 Jun 10
I agree with you, Sky, there should be an awareness, really.. So many bully cases nowadays, and on social networking sites especially.. Kids sometimes do not communicate to their parents, so parents have to be aware of what's happening and all that, before it's too late.. Just my 2 cents thoughts on this..
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
25 Jun 10
I actually did recently allow my daughter to have her own facebook account, however, in allowing her to have the account, I also made sure that she understood that I was to be her friend on there and that I was also to know her password. It isn't that I want to spy on Kathryn at all, however, I also want to be able to watch out for her well-being. She is very, very open with me to date, so I don't think that I really have a lot to worry about.