fallen angel - not happy that he earned
@princejayevents (1245)
Philippines
June 24, 2010 6:53am CST
I was shocked when a member of this network sent me negative message and blaming me for not guiding him when he started EARNING MONEY ONLINE here in MYLOT. I guess, someone like him must be thankful enough that I invited hi to join.
I was so busy with my events and haven't been online for a long time. As in long time. But good that my account is still active.
Hope you guys will be thankful and not be miserable when someone invites you to JOIN MYLOT. The fact, you are earning money ONLINE because of the people who INVITED YOU!
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9 responses
@daveyboy54 (518)
• United States
24 Jun 10
Unfortunately there are some people who simply don't appreciate help when it's given to them. Try to forget them and just move on. I think it's great that you are helping out people here. By the way what your doing is probably the best way to get referrals in the long run because ultimately you will develop a reputation of being knowledgeable AND trustworthy Who wouldn't want to be a referral for someone like that. Just ask oldbuddy, aka Warren Contreras. He's been doing it for years.
Keep up the great work and try not to let those blockheads get to you. They are a dime a dozen.
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@purplealabaster (22094)
• United States
24 Jun 10
Ummm ... unless I am completely reading this discussion wrong, this guy is saying that he invited someone to join this site as his referral and then did not help them when they became active. That is why the person was angry with him and sent him a negative message. The poster of this discussion is saying that he thinks the referral should just be happy that he or she was invited to join the site and not expect any help, even though the poster of this discussion will be earning from any activity that the referral does.
@daveyboy54 (518)
• United States
24 Jun 10
You know what purplealabaster, you are absolutely right. I stand corrected. I mean really stand corrected.
Hey princejayevents if this person became your referral and you did not help him, he's got every right in the world to be upset. Did you forget that he's helping you make money? If you expect to get referrals in the future, you better start helping the ones you already have and quit whinning about it when they getupset because you're not.
Thanks again purplealablaster for calling me out on my initial post. I gotta remeber to keep my head out of my a**.
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@purplealabaster (22094)
• United States
24 Jun 10
LOL! We all read things wrong from time to time, and I actually went back and re-read the discussion just to make sure that I was not the one that had misunderstood, especially since if I was the one that had misunderstood then I would owe him an apology for my response above.
You made a some good points in your original comment, and I agree with what you said.
Unnfortunately, though, those comments do not apply to this situation. This is one of the reasons that there are quite a few of us that try to help out the newer users, because they are invited or enticed into joining this site, and then they do not receive any help from their up-line, and yet those people are still making money on any activity that these referrals do here. Many of the newer users get frustrated because the site isn't what was promised or feel abandoned by their up-line, make many errors and have things deleted, and eventually they get discouraged and leave. That is not good for the site, especially since these newer users could add a lot of value to the site with just a little assistance.
You made a some good points in your original comment, and I agree with what you said. Unnfortunately, though, those comments do not apply to this situation. This is one of the reasons that there are quite a few of us that try to help out the newer users, because they are invited or enticed into joining this site, and then they do not receive any help from their up-line, and yet those people are still making money on any activity that these referrals do here. Many of the newer users get frustrated because the site isn't what was promised or feel abandoned by their up-line, make many errors and have things deleted, and eventually they get discouraged and leave. That is not good for the site, especially since these newer users could add a lot of value to the site with just a little assistance.
@purplealabaster (22094)
• United States
24 Jun 10
You do not have to be invited to join myLot, so why should he be thankful to you for "inviting" him to join (I am assuming that means he is your referral)? If you actively recruited someone to join this site and have him or her as your referral, then I do think it is your responsibility to help him or her out when they first start here. You are earning for their activity, so you should be the person that they can go to when they have problems or questions about the site.
There are plenty of us that help the newer users out, because unfortunately their up-lines will not help them. We do it to help, so that the newer user does not feel abandoned, but we lose time and money every time we respond to a discussion that they start that is a violation of the guidelines. If his or her up-line would assist them, then it would be much less work for everybody, and there would probably a lot more active users as they would not get as frustrated or feel abandoned. Plus, if you are earning money from the person's activity, then why should helping them out be the responsibility of someone else?
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@dawnald (85130)
• Shingle Springs, California
5 Aug 11
My sponsor did help me out when I was new on myLot, and I am very grateful for it. You may not have a responsibility to help out your referrals, but on the other hand your chances of keeping them active goes way up if you do.
@p3halliwell (157)
• Philippines
25 Jun 10
that person is pathetic. i am always thankful to my upline whenever i am introduced to a great site. besides, the success of each person doesn't depend on his referrer but on his efforts and perseverance. no one should blame anyone. besides it was just an invitation he decided to accept. he didn't pay for it or anything. you would still do good and earn in mylot even without that person.
@cindysoriano (103)
• Philippines
25 Jun 10
he must be very stupid because you already invited him and he started to earn. at the same time if he earned already it means that he already know how to use mylot. every mylotter should be responsible on what they do...actually not only mylotter, it should be all people.
@carsocmaguinsay (417)
• Philippines
25 Jun 10
too bad! but you can ignore that member whoever he is... he should be responsible for his own actions anyway.
@elvieb02 (695)
• Philippines
24 Jun 10
hi,
people should not blame anybody but should be thankful. well, nobody invited me but i am happy to invite people to share how to earn money online. but in case that i don't have time to guide them, they must read it on the site as all information are posted on the site for the members reference.
@StephanieAnnC (4274)
• United States
24 Jun 10
That's frustrating! It isn't too uncommon, unfortunately. I've never had it happen to me, but I've heard stories of not-so-nice people here on myLot. I haven't encountered one yet and I hope I never do. I have to admit that even if I invited someone to come here, that doesn't guarantee that they'll like it here. Even if they didn't like it, I'd at least like a 'thank you, but this isn't for me.' or something like that. Not a negative message telling me that I shouldn't have invite dhim or her!
@luci1209 (34)
• Sri Lanka
24 Jun 10
Well sorry to hear about the negative comments your friend should be thankful to you for showing him a site where he can earn through it.if he is really interested in earning he should have read the faq. Well i am new to this site and no one referred me i found this site through search when i was finding ways to earn online. So tell your friend you have saved him time and effort by giving him a good legitimate site to earn well.
