When I was a bachelor I wanted to a wife
By vijayanths
@vijayanths (7877)
India
June 24, 2010 12:42pm CST
who is beautiful, economical, understanding and a great cook.
You know what happened finally?
I settled with one wife on legal grounds.
It's not easy to have all the qualities in a single person, so let us adjust and be flexible and be happy with what we have, what do you say?
It's not easy to have all the qualities in a single person, so let us adjust and be flexible and be happy with what we have, what do you say?7 responses
@mario_stevens (6971)
• Malaysia
24 Jun 10
that statement says a lot...
and i always try to be happy with what i have 
@mario_stevens (6971)
• Malaysia
24 Jun 10
the brain just happens to think...i can't tell it to stop
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
25 Jun 10
you are a gem Jotomy, your hubby would be loving you and having a great opinion about you.
@Jotomy (6322)
• India
25 Jun 10
yes anna, i asked him, he said you are very sweet, loving, kind heart, caring. He said "you love and care my parents there i like you more" . But i am not that good cook, i do so many experiments showed on the TV but it will not come out well. We will adjust with the different taste. 
Today i am very happy to listen to all these. Thank you once again anna, what is my position and opinion i came to know. Even i am happy to share with you.
Today i am very happy to listen to all these. Thank you once again anna, what is my position and opinion i came to know. Even i am happy to share with you. 
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
25 Jun 10
hahaha, you got it ganesh, no, I m not looking (Even one I can't manage why go for another?
@mercedlegurpa (955)
• Philippines
25 Jun 10
Yes because nobody is perfect. We have to adjust what the other person's lapses and flaws. We are not perfect also.
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
25 Jun 10
that's it mercedlegurpa . We should learn to live with the flaws of our partners.
@incus99 (1083)
• Philippines
24 Jun 10
Marriage is not a walk in a park.. a lot of dedication is needed.. cooperation between two partners to succeed in the relationship and be happy.. the traits that you look for in a wife are not the only traits that you'll be dealing in your marriage life.. one great authors said " It takes a lifetime to know your wife"
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
24 Jun 10
well said incus, I do agree with you that it takes a lifetime to know your spouse.
@pinikjuse4 (141)
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25 Jun 10
True indeed! A person goes on a daily transformation...brought about by present experiences and the changes that goes around. Just like any other person - knowing your spouse is a dynamic and continuous process!
@Clickenecash (285)
• Philippines
25 Jun 10
I have to agree. You don't look for a perfect person, you find a perfect compliment to what you lack. That is the reason why like forces repel and unlike forces attract. If you won't be happy for yourself then nobody else will so you should be.
rest I'll adjust for her.......
thanks for the topic........
have a great day/night..........