My friend and I love one boy at the same time
By qiyu0126
@qiyu0126 (3)
China
June 24, 2010 11:13pm CST
I have a boyfriend when i was in junior high school.But we broke up before entrance examination fou high school.And i meet a girl in new school.We are deskmates.I often tell her things what he and I did.And then I found he was chasing after her.I was so angry with her.We didn't talk about each other for a long time.
Now,I have been a freshman in shanghai normal university and i still love him.Yesterday we chat with on MSN.I was so excited that i didn't fall asleep until 2 o'clock in the morning.I know maybe i shouldn't do this,shouldn't talk with him.But what should i do?
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9 responses
@jose431 (164)
• India
30 Jul 10
Recently I broke up with my boyfriend because my best friend also loves him more than me at the same time.But she never told me that she loves my boyfriend,But I have little doubt of them.Finally I came to know from her mobile phone,she sent lots of love sms to him and received too.I think so deep weather should I tell to my friend or to my boyfriend.
@sweetloveforeve (13106)
• Portugal
13 Jul 10
why were you angry with your friend? she didnt know that he was your ex right?^^ wasnt her fault. the problem was that guy you and him just broke up and he was already after other girl. also you still talk with him well i dont know is ok if you talk with him but remember you still love him so try to know if he has a gf or something bcs if he has you might get hurt if you talk and talk with him thinking he has noone and then you find out he has and even more hurt you get. if he doesnt have a gf now well then you have a free way to try to show him how sweet you are and who he lost and maybe you get back together again. but what about your friend? does she love him? bcs if she loves him thats complicated :( she might get hurt.
@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
28 Jun 10
Sometimes the one thing that could break up a strong relationship is about falling in love with the same person. However it rarely happens but when it does someone was going to be badly hurt and the friendship will no longer thrive. It seems in the game of love anybody is willing to sacrifice their friendship just to get what they want.
Since you were still in love with the boy, it is okay to chat with him as long that he is no longer attach to your friend because if he is then your friend might think that you just want him out for revenge.
It might create another fresh trouble and I am sure you don't want the history to be repeated again...are you.
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
25 Jun 10
I think it's not really your friend's fault unless she knew that he was your ex. You're over with the guy so face it. He's in love with somebody else and if you love him truly, you would want him to be happy though he wants to be with somebody else. If you break them apart, you'll just regret in the end because you're just going to hurt them.
@curiousplay54 (341)
• Malaysia
25 Jun 10
He must be your first love huh? Well cannot blame you i you can't forget him...but you better make sure whether he has the same feeling as you do so that you don't waste your time for nothing. high school is like a small pond but university is like an ocean there are plenty fish you can choose. Enjoy your time in university and get to know as many as possible friends while you are there.
@Cutie18f (9551)
• Philippines
25 Jun 10
Since you got yourself into this, you better be ready to get hurt again. In the first place, I don't think it is a good idea to share everything with your friend. There should be certain limits especially if what you tell your friend are all about the good side of him, she will most likely fall for him. Next time, be careful.
@Susanayako1988 (350)
• China
25 Jun 10
Maybe you already do not love him! But since you are angry about the fact that he is chasing after your friend and feel be cheated by both of them and this feeling of being cheated and being angry gives you the wrong impression that you still love him.
I think let him go, let yourself go! This kind of a boy is not trustworthy, you should be happy that you have broken up with him. Start you new life. Build the relationship with your current boyfriend wholeheartedly. Do miss this one again!
@vikas_711 (106)
• India
25 Jun 10
Well, do that what makes you happy.
If you feel happy, if u have a very good time while talking to hime then you should go ahead.
@damned_dle (3942)
• Philippines
25 Jun 10
Why did you broke up anyway? Is your friend his girlfriend now? If you really are still in love with him then you should tell him. If he he doesn't feel the same then just try as hard as you can to just let him go.
