Would you choose a soulmate because of passion or compatability?
By ketping8889
@ketping8889 (302)
Saudi Arabia
June 25, 2010 9:27pm CST
I am so very happy today because my best friend is getting married. He finally choose the girl who is compatible to him in terms of same level of education, understanding, beliefs and religion rather than the girl who he loves very much for years.This girl whom he really loves is from different culture, beliefs and low level of education.
He told me that he is happier to be with his soulmate who is compatible to him who he can trust and he feels more comfortable and secured rather than his lover. He also said the he feels very comfortable, stable and secured now. He is happier because he felt a new kind of passion and an entirely different depth of love.
I admire his mental power for he is so sensible and wise inspite of his dying passion for the girl whom he loved so very dearly. Would you think if you are in my friend's shoes, would you choose a soulmate because of passion or compatability?
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@cheongyc (5072)
• Malaysia
26 Jun 10
First of all, I congratulate your friend who had finally found what he want in the end. It's a pity that he cannot have both passion and compatibility in his final soul mate. I have many friends who are very fortunate to have both qualities on their life partner. However, some of friends are not as lucky as your friend.
Thanks and have a nice day!
@ketping8889 (302)
• Saudi Arabia
26 Jun 10
Thanks for your reply, cheongyc. Yes, he was indeed happy when I spoke to him yesterday. He is not pathetic or depressed that he didn't end up with his lover. He is happier now and he realised that compatability, trust, comfort, security and having common beliefs, origin and culture outlive passion everytime.
His final soulmate is definately much prettier and he loves her without any doubts.
Even his parents gave him their blessing and are so happy. Before, he was always quarreling with his parents over his relationship with his ex-lover who was so annoying to his parents as well as to his relatives.
He really proves to be such a filial son and he uses his mind to control his heart. Now,he has everything not only compatability, passion, security and most important of all his peace of mind. He has such strong mentality as to be able to let go of his deep passion. I am indeed happy to see his parents being so proud of their son. He is so lucky actually. Don't you think so?
