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Maybe your don't see your wife interesting. Open communication is the key to your problem make your wife be interesting.

The importent thing right now is discussion. You must discuss face to face and tell her what you want and don't want also she need to tell what she want and don't want.Don't make this problems getting longer and longer.

women goes through some changes over the years. and as a husband we need to learn to deal with it. it might just be one of those women thingy us men just dont understand. if anything talk to her about it, make sure nothing is wrong with her. think with the upper head not the lower one lol

It is normal NOT to be normal ! There are sooo many different possibilities of what can happen. Just go with what is good for you. Communicate, communicate, communicate with your wife. This is the MAIN recipe.

Maybe your wife is looking for some "variation" in your relationship. Being married for 11 years can lead to monotony. Your hesitation and lack of interest to what your wife is suggesting maybe because you're not used to these changes, that's why your initial reaction is to close yourself. Try to talk to your wife, find out what she wants. Try to be open to her ideas and if you're uncomfortable, be honest but be tactful as to not to offend her. Good communication is the key to any relationship, communicate with her.

I would think you need to ask why you have become less interested in her. That could be a problem. I have always thought that your bed life is a good indicator as to the health or your relationship