On Being Made Fun Of

Poking Fun At - Shows a magazine cover of Mad Magazine where Sylvester Stallone is being poked in fun...
@gifana (4833)
Portugal
November 16, 2006 8:38pm CST
How do you react when someone makes fun of you either jokingly or seriously? I simply dont. My philosphy is that as long as someone is making fun of me they are letting everyone else alone.....So have at it. If you have seen my profile you have seen that my slogan is "Laff and the world laffs with you.....snore and you sleep alone". I love to make people laff but hopefully not by offending them. My jokes are not aimed at anyone in particular so. I sometimes poke fun at them but only in jest not in an offensive way. No one can offend me because I don't let them as I just ignore it.
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• United States
18 Nov 06
I am a very sarcastic person and usually respond with something just as biting.
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@gifana (4833)
• Portugal
18 Nov 06
Is there a reason that your are sarcastic or are you only sarcastic when people poke fun at you.
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@delacy (14)
• United States
18 Nov 06
I like your style. I am sarcastic also. Anyone that singles me out to make fun of better be prepared because I won't ignore it most of the time. I am very quick and that generally catches a person off guard.Making fun of people is simply wrong and I think they deserve to be slapped down.People that enjoy making fun of people generally pick on someone that they see as weak.If I witness anyone picking on a person, I almost always step in and defend the person being picked on.I can't stand to see someone be made fun of or picked on even someone that I don't care for, I will defend them if they are being picked on unjustly.
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• United States
18 Nov 06
I'm a smartass by nature and I just end up popping off with something...sometimes it'll make someone laugh and other times it'll really made them mad...oh well lol, that's just par for the course lol.
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@Pmcbride (1081)
17 Nov 06
there are a few ways i deal with this, 1 the same as you because some other poor sod is being left alone, 2 make fun of them right back (i can be very quick witted at times and turn the conversation on them!!) 3. Join in and make fun of myself (This really confuses them and they dont know what to say!!)
@Pmcbride (1081)
18 Nov 06
and thank you for the best response
@gifana (4833)
• Portugal
17 Nov 06
Excellent. To my way of thinking you have hit the nail on the head. It's so much more gratifying and many times it will cause the instigator to have second thoughts the next time he/she makes fun of someone.
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@gifana (4833)
• Portugal
17 Nov 06
Thanks so much for the response.....I rated you best response. Have a nice day.
@claudia413 (4280)
• United States
23 Nov 06
I'm with you...they're leaving someone else alone when they pick on me. I never let it bother me, just let it go. I have a pretty thick skin when it comes to someone making fun of me, but I usually don't like it when someone makes fun of a friend or family member (especially ones with physical problems). I'll just say something like "That sure wasn't a very nice thing to say". And you have to laugh to keep from crying a lot of times, but it's much more fun to laugh, whether it's at yourself or something else.
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@gifana (4833)
• Portugal
23 Nov 06
Sometimes I can come up with a quick comical rebuttal and turn it around, especially when there are others around. When I do this the person doesn't do it again seriously. Happy Thanksgiving....Thanks for response.
18 Nov 06
I think it depends if you've got a sense of humour.In this day and age,you need broad shoulders for what people are saying and doing. I tend to let things slide,until i've had enough,then i retaliate.
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@gifana (4833)
• Portugal
18 Nov 06
In this day and age we must have a sense of humor. I also think it is important to consider the source....most of those who make fun of me don't know me from their elbow. Thanks for your response
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@gifana (4833)
• Portugal
23 Jan 07
What is an NRI lady please?
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@anjuscor (1266)
• India
23 Jan 07
Once a NRI Lady went to Janpath for shopping. She suddenly remembered that she has an important appointment. By chance she was not wearing a watch so she asked a sardar what the time was? The sardar was very patriotic and hated such persons. He replied: "Bra Panties." The lady again asked what the time was. The reply was the same. Then the lady told a person standing nearby the problem. Then the sardar explained, "I am giving you the time. It is barah pantees(12:35).
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@texgal (494)
• United States
18 Nov 06
If you let them push you buttons they will do it everytime they are around you just smile and say wow I didn't know you cared so much to be a true friend and speak up about my faults thank you It gets them everytime
@texgal (494)
• United States
18 Nov 06
I've been in and out only on a few minutes at a time going through some ruff times right now lost a sister in law in august was in hospital in october then lost dad 3 days after I got out of hospital But it's great to see you here Are you having fun I like it here has some interesting things to read and post to Have a great day my friend
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@gifana (4833)
• Portugal
18 Nov 06
Book - Cover of book"I Didn«t Know you Cared"
Been wondering when you'd show up. How are you? Like your idea. Next time someone criticizes me I'll use it and see what happens. Thanks for responding
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@gifana (4833)
• Portugal
18 Nov 06
My condolences for your Dad. Sorry about the bad times and pray that your life gets back on track soon. Am loving it here but there just aren't enough hours in the day for me to keep up with my responses to others discussions, make comments of others responses to mine and try to comment on friends discussions. But I'll keep plugging....
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@emisle (3822)
• Ireland
24 Jan 07
I do make fun of my friends etc. but it's not in a nasty way and they know it. They give it right back and it's fine. It's just the way my humour is and it makes them laugh/smile..:) I do know though that some people can take it too far but I don't think I do.
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@gifana (4833)
• Portugal
26 Jan 07
When it's all in good fun there is no harm done. The problem comes when someone "picks" on someone because their feet are too big, or they wear weird color combinations, or something else trite. It's one thing to make fun of a friend but to someone who doesn't know you it is uncalled for. Thanks for dropping by...always nice to see you.
• United States
18 Nov 06
i seem to offend ppl but it is just my personality. i like to "bust balls" and some ppl think im being serrious but im just playing around. Plus it s a good way to get everything in your mind out in the open. When someone ;busts balls with me i usually get them right back or just go ha ha ha ha sarcasticly. i think it s just plain fun.
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• United States
18 Nov 06
no i dont try to but some ppl just dont get it. oh well.
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@gifana (4833)
• Portugal
18 Nov 06
Okay. That's the problem the we, who try to make people laff, have when we are misinterpreted.
@gifana (4833)
• Portugal
18 Nov 06
Not really sure that I get your drift. Why should offending people be part of your personality? Does it make you feel better when you have offended someone because its fun? thank you for responding. Difference of opinions make horseracing.
• United States
18 Nov 06
I used to get made fun of a lot. People used to always laugh and make jokes about me. Now that I am older, I do not care. I just tell people to go to Hell or go screw themselves. Frankly, I do not care what people think about me anymore. I just do not care.
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@gifana (4833)
• Portugal
18 Nov 06
I agree.....but I try to be a little more subtle about it.
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@ChewySpree (1832)
• United States
17 Nov 06
I don't know - this is a hard one because for some things I would let it slide and laugh it off. But other things I'm more sensitive about and they're my "hot buttons". For those things I would tend to get angry and let the person know it.
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@gifana (4833)
• Portugal
17 Nov 06
Conscience - Cartoon of Marge Simpson remarking on conscience
Thanks for response. It's never easy to accept the fact that someone is laffing or poking fun at us. But when push comes to shove each of us knows ourself and as long as we can live with our conscience then why care what others think?
@bzinger (412)
• United States
18 Nov 06
Nice picture gifana.
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@gifana (4833)
• Portugal
23 Nov 06
Thanks.....Happy Thanksgiving.
• United States
18 Nov 06
I feel if you cannot Laugh at yourself. You shouldn't make fun of anyone else. My circle of friends constantly tease me. And I return it. We have a great time. I know I don't go to far. Because when I do getogther with my friends they always say " I miss UncleBill time"
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@gifana (4833)
• Portugal
18 Nov 06
Poking Fun - Game called "Poking Fun" with image of a cat reaching for a fish in a fishbowl.
Good Response....thank you. Like the Golden Rule says.....do unto others as they do unto you......then run like h... they might be chasing you.
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@kaspyv (1011)
• United States
18 Nov 06
I'm like you...if they're pokin fun at me they're letting some else rest...I learned a long time ago to not let it get to me ..I just try to have fun with it
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@gifana (4833)
• Portugal
18 Nov 06
Good thinking. keep up the good work. Thanks for responding
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@Pigglies (9329)
• United States
24 Nov 06
Sometimes I will play along if it is all in fun. At the office everyone gets made fun of, but sometimes feelings get hurt. I try not to make fun of people too much because I'd feel bad if I hurt anyone.
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@gifana (4833)
• Portugal
25 Nov 06
Yes, one must be very careful if they are poking fun at some in jest and it is taken the wrong way. When I first came to Portugal, thier cousin (about 60) had recently lost her husband and was overwrought. Well, me in my way tried to make fun to see if I could get her out of the doldrums. She would say.....why don't you like me.....and I would give her some foolish reason....not meaning a word but kidding. I didn't learn until later that she took seriously everything I had said. I went to her immediately and apologized. I explained that my way of looking at life was different from hers and that I like to say things I don't mean to make people laugh. After my explanation she stopped crying at started coming back at me in her own way. We are still friends she will be 90 in April and still going strong. And I still make fun of her....and she keeps coming back at me.
@gifana (4833)
• Portugal
25 Nov 06
correction: When I first came to Portugal I lived with a Portuguese family and their cousin lived in the apartment below--
@gifana (4833)
• Portugal
25 Nov 06
Wow. I know the feeling. I have been told that some people think that I am lesbian and the fact that I share an apartment with another woman cements their thinking. It has never bothered me because I know the truth. If that's what they want to think, so be it....it's their problem. The funny thing is we are friends but they never bring up what they have said behind my back. As my mommy used to say.....sticks and stones will break your bones but words can never hurt you. Appreciate your inpute.
• Philippines
25 Jan 07
if i just feel that i have been hurt much, then i would just say enough is enough.
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@gifana (4833)
• Portugal
26 Jan 07
That is fine up to a point. I would make sure that they never got the chance to make the same mistake again with someone else. I would have turned the tables and made some stupid remark that would embarass them but not necessarily hurt them. But that's the way I am.
• Philippines
25 Feb 07
It really depends on how you deliver the joke in not aiming some person. And you will know if such joke would be fun for some and not for others. If they are used to your jokes then it would just be fine. =)
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@gifana (4833)
• Portugal
2 Mar 07
Making fun of someone doesn't necessarily have anything to do with a joke. I make fun of people by telling them things like "your hair looks like you cut it with a lawn mower" or "does your mother have any children that lived". This means saying some "nasty" in a comical way that might make someone feel hurt. Or if you hear someone singing off key and you make some snide remark like "she can«t carry a tune in a bucket". Thanks for dropping by.
@gifana (4833)
• Portugal
2 Mar 07
Making fun of someone doesn't necessarily have anything to do with a joke. I make fun of people by telling them things like "your hair looks like you cut it with a lawn mower" or "does your mother have any children that lived". This means saying some "nasty" in a comical way that might make someone feel hurt. Or if you hear someone singing off key and you make some snide remark like "she can«t carry a tune in a bucket". Thanks for dropping by.
• United States
30 Dec 06
If someone makes a joke that is directed towards me....I will laugh and give it back at them double. At 49, I have reached the age where I don't give a flying fig and will say what is on my mind. I approach life with humor. Laughter is the best medicine.
@gifana (4833)
• Portugal
30 Dec 06
How right you are. I don't think, however, that age has anything to do with it. I have been that way all my life and I am too old to change. Thanks for dropping in...always good to see you.
@bam001 (940)
• United States
30 Dec 06
If a good friend is just playing, I will usually laugh with them...but if it is something hurtful, or meant to hurt, I will not react/respond at all. I think that a lack of response sends a huge message.
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@gifana (4833)
• Portugal
30 Dec 06
In many cases it sure does. Silence is golden. Sometimes, you can make fun in a funny way and everyone ends up laffing including yourself. Thanks for dropping by
@nana1944 (1365)
• United States
25 Jan 07
Introductory Chemistry was taught at Duke University for many years by professor Bonk. One year, two guys took the class and did pretty well on all the quizzes and mid-terms--so much so that going into the final, they each had a solid A. These two friends were so confident going into the final that the weekend before finals week, despite the Chemistry final being on Monday, they decided to go to the Uuniversity of Virginina to party with some friends. They did this and had a great time. However, with their hangovers and tiredness, they overslept all day Sunday and didn't make it back to Duke until early Monday morning. Rather than taking the final then, they found professor Bonk after the final and explained to him how they missed the final. They told him they went up to the University of Virgina for the weekend and had planned to come back in time to study, but they had a flat tire on the way back and didn't have a spare. They couldn't fix it for a long time and were late getting back to campus. Bonk thought this over and agreed that they could take the final the following day. The two guys, elated and relieved, studied that night and went in the next day at the time that Bonk had told them. He placed them in separate rooms and handed each of them a test booklet. He told them to begin. They looked at the first problem which was something simple about molarity and solutions; it was worth 5 points. "Cool," they thought, "this is going to be an easy final". They then turned the page. They were unprepared, however, for what they saw on it. The question contained only two words: (95 points) Which tire?
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@gifana (4833)
• Portugal
26 Jan 07
Have no idea what this has to do with the discussion topic. Would you mind explaining?
• United States
3 Jan 07
Usually if somebody is making fun of you its because they have self esteme issues themself. I dont respond. To me its not worth the stress.
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@gifana (4833)
• Portugal
3 Jan 07
Excellent point. Had not thought of it that way. Thanks so much for dropping in and for your input.
@minerc (1373)
• United States
23 Jan 07
I share the same philosophy, I always say to each there own, or You can say anything about me that you please I am what I am and thats something you can never be. I really don't react if they are in front of me, I might point out another negative I have that they might of missed that usually gets them to shut up.
@gifana (4833)
• Portugal
23 Jan 07
Another good idea defending by counter-attacking without ruffling any feathers....if I'm reading you right. Agreeing and taking it further. I think, however, that could be very confusion to some people as they wouldn't know that you were pulling their leg...especially if you say it with a serious face. Thanks for dropping by and for your input.
• India
25 Jan 07
same here...wat i do..joke here also.. Frederick II, the eighteenth-century King of Prussia, fancied himself an enlightened monarch, and in some respects he was. On one occasion he is supposed to have interested himself in conditions in the Berlin prison and was escorted through it so that he might speak to the prisoners. One after the other, the prisoners fell to their knees before him, bewailing their lot and, predictably, protesting their utter innocence of all charges that had been brought against them. Only one prisoner remained silent, and finally Frederick's curiosity was aroused. 'You,' he called. 'You there.' The prisoner looked up. 'Yes, Your Majesty?' 'Why are you here?' 'Armed robbery, Your Majesty.' 'And are you guilty?' 'Entirely guilty, Your Majesty. I richly deserve my punishment.' 2003 At this Frederick rapped his cane sharply on the ground and said, 'Warden, release this guilty wretch at once.21 jan I will not have him here in jail where by example he will corrupt all the splendid innocent people who occupy it.'
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@gifana (4833)
• Portugal
25 Jan 07
I was asking what you do when some makes fun of you. I wasn't asking for jokes. Thank you.
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