What's the definition of a good lover?

Romania
June 28, 2010 5:47am CST
i love my girlfriend very much and i want to be a good lover for her,i am very watchful with her i always try to surprise her by sending roses to her work place going on romantic dinners,exotic trips.I always tell her that she's the most beautiful girl in the world and how much i love her Please tell how can i bee the best lover for her
4 responses
• Portugal
8 Jul 10
aww thats so cute eduard^^ you are already a best lover ever^^ dont need to do more than what you do already^^ just keep being who you are and please be proud of yourself bcs there are just a few guys like you in this world and remember always take good care of her and keep loving her much^^ also i wish she really takes good care of you and knows that she has a great guy that she cant let go^^ dont forget that you also must be appreciated^^ not just appreciate her^^
• Romania
9 Jul 10
thanks a lot you are soo sweet
• Philippines
30 Jun 10
hi there ceduard23,thats so sweet of you giving surprises to your love one...actually,there's really no such thing as a perfect lover. we all have our good and bad side, in a relationship you dont have to be a perfect person to be loved. nobody's perfect, right?.what matters most in a relationship is that your honest and true to your self, giving flowers,chocolates are just ways on expressing how you love and valued that person. If she loves you so much she will accept you weather you dont have flowers, romantic surprises, chocolates and stuff toys.....
• Romania
6 Jul 10
Thanks a lot and i know theres no such thing as a perfect lover but i try my best
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• India
3 Aug 10
Loving without expectation and loving truly.
• United States
6 Jul 10
I think she is lucky to have you! You do most of the things I wish my husband would do!! I keep telling him the littlest things would make me SO happy, I just wish he would call me from work one day and say "Baby I love and miss you and I just wanted you to know that." That would MAKE MY DAY! For some reason, it is complicated for him to do that I guess... =)