Do you spoil your child?

Hello everyone Yes i spoil my children, and i have no reason to stop. As long as i have the money to buy, or do what they want they will have it. I think you are confussing bad, disrespectful children with spoiled and thats not always the case. My son is now 16 and i give him everything he want because he deserve it. He is rewarded for his good deeds and actions, when he graduated jr high with a honors he wanted prada shoes and i got them, he wears nothing but gucci and polo but its ok because he takes care of what he as. He is excellent in school, sports just about anything he puts his mind to. I dont worry much about him following behind what someone else does or getting into trouble because he has a stong mind and always the leader. You can call it spoiled if you want to, i call it planting a seed, getting him ready for his bright future, in order to keep up with the lifestyle that i provide hes gonna have to work hard to maintain it himself, and my baby is well on his way!!!

I wasnt spoiled by my parents and I am thankful they didnt. I have nephews now and they are also not spoiled by their parents. My parents are the ones spoiling them. I think the main reason why grandparents spoil their grandkids, is because the only thing that they can do for them is love them and need not worry about sending them to school and other things like that.

parents should be the one who teach their children on what is the true meaning of wants and needs. my aunt spoil her 5 siblings,that's why they dont know how to value things. they're not rich but those cousin of mine acting like they are. oh,i hate them really. and what's so irritating they don't even care to show respect to there parents. that's parent fault!