children

United States
June 29, 2010 10:18pm CST
I have three daughters, 12, 6, and 3, they are constantly fighting, which I know is normal,, but they tell each other that they hate them,, and your stupid,, and wish you were dead,, i correct them every time,,i know they are sisters and they are gonna fight, but this bother's me,, any suggestions on how to get them over this?????
5 responses
@bkrm_gupt (219)
• India
28 Jul 10
Though they are not grown up and they fight and quarrel for silly reason.Because they are so innocent now and they won't know what is love and relationship between the family.Later they will grow up and know what is love and realize how important is family i their life.Don't worry.........
• Bhutan
30 Jun 10
I have two sisters,20 and 15 years. You know my two sisters used to fight, quarrel, say this and that like your daughters when they are young as your daughters.They used to say they hate each other. But surprisingly, now they love and respect each other very much because they are grown up. SO DONOT WORRY, soon they will start loving eachother when they are grown upbecause now they are too young to understand the love and the facts. Even i i used to fight with my brother who is 1 and half year old when we were small. BUt now we love and respect so much. So donot worry.
• Philippines
30 Jun 10
We are also three girls siblings, when were young we do fight a lot mostly me and my older sister. We also have said such bad things against each other and no one will come between us since both our parents are working and my younger sister was also young that time. I think you should punished them because it isn't healthy to hear such things.
@momof3kids (1894)
• Singapore
30 Jun 10
My children are 13 yrs, 6 yrs and 14 months old. The older ones quarrel very often so i do not know if my suggestions will work. I notice that when I scold the 13 yr old, the 6 yr old will kinda comfort him. Even though I was angry, I pointed that out to him. Hopefully he realises that his sister loves him. Now the 6 yr old is saying she hates the baby. So whenever the baby smiles at her, I jokingly 'scold' the baby,'I told you not to smile at your sister, stop smiling at her!!' This makes the 6 yr old even more determined to make the baby smile. I also try my hardest to be fair with the older ones when they quarrel. To be fair when we go to the shops and see that everyone (except the baby until shes old enough to know) is not left out when i buy things. Maybe my 13 yr old is now very busy with his own activities so they seldom see each other so it is more 'peaceful' nowadays.
• China
30 Jun 10
I have two sisters and one brother in my life. we also fought in our childhood. but if there are some cooperation games between them will be helpful for their realation .