Faithful or unfaithful?
June 30, 2010 4:49pm CST
How to know if your boyfriend is cheating on your or ever since faithful? I have a girl friend of mine whose always asking me this question. And she's repeating it over and over again. My answer was really uncertain because i, myself don't know how to answer it. My first answer was like this "you will just feel it even if you don't try to investigate". But i felt that that answer of mine was not really so true so i came to ask you guys this question. If you were on my shoes what probably your answer?
• United States
30 Jun 10
You said it right..You will know..I have been on both sides of the fence. I have cheated and been cheated on in my years of being in relationships. As much as we don't want to accept it, we know when our significant other is cheating. Hope i don't get anyone in trouble... but you know what your doing out there so don't act surprised when they ask you are you cheating on me...
30 Jun 10
But there are a lot of friend of mine whose really in these situation and they will just say, "oh! i really can feel that something is happening but i can't see it in my own eyes. Something that has a proof. A very good reason to broke up. They are just merely suspicions and doubts. I really have these strong feeling but no one can ever testify it even myself". Sometimes my head aches when these topic brought up.
28 Jul 10
Cheating between lovers are very bad habit and its unfaitful, they just playing with once innocent heart. What you said, it is right, when somebody cheat us we don't see them. Yes we can able to feel that as he is cheating and playing with our heart.
3 Jul 10
Sometimes it is better to know earlier than later. I was cheated, betrayed, used and abandoned. I will never allow any other man to do such horrible things to me like him. That's why, if I wanted to check reliability and faithfulness of my partner, and I would have some suspicions, I would use a keylogger on my computer to check and I would use a spy phone to check him. Nowadays people jump from one partner to another and they do not realise how much they hurt, it hurts more if you are long in a relationship and trust your partner and suddenly it turns out he changes so much you can not recognise any good man inside him, then just check, use any available sources to make sure. How cares if they are moral or not, I don't care...
• United States
2 Jul 10
I agree that you will "just know". Even if that person is not cheating yet- if you feel that something isn't right than there needs to be a change in the dynamic of the relationship. If that is the case I think the relationship will either dissolve or the person will end up cheating. Either way trust your instincts.