How to get over a relationship

Philippines
July 2, 2010 6:04am CST
I just got out of a relationship, 4 years with my gf. She left me actually, for another guy. Right now, I'm trying to get back on my feet after a couple of weeks of torment. But it's really hard. I don't even know where to start. I miss her still.
4 responses
merma1267
@merma1267 (130)
• Philippines
2 Jul 10
As i understand of what you feel.. NOT easy to overcome .. or moving forward.. BUT then have to think.. there is life AFTER the storm... why not to get more busy with your work?... go out with friends... but never get into another relationship coz you can be UNFAIR with someone that can possibly love you.. and you are not towards that woman. Please take note of this, anyone who is under depression can easily be tempt to get or find another woman and enter into a relationship.. you better go out with your same status friends means male friends ONLY. then feel FIRST for being a single again... in time your heart might be ready for another relationship.. so MOVE ON.
mcabiles
@mcabiles (44)
• Philippines
2 Jul 10
Thank you for your response. You and words like this is really what I need right now. Makes me think straight and understand what I need to do.
sweetloveforeve
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
12 Jul 10
im very sorry for what happened thats very sad that your gf left you after being together for 4 years :( for sure you were not expecting that she left you so suddenly but you need to move on. dont be sad bcs of her. she is with other guy now and she is happy why should you be sad? dont be sad ok?^^ soon you will find a girl that will love you and care much for you^^ you deserve it bcs you really loved your gf and you are a sweet guy^^ dont worry for sure you can find a girl better than her that will love you more than everything^^ cheer up
eM
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
3 Jul 10
I think it's best if you'd continue to imagine her with another guy and feel the pain until it hurts no more. I'm sure she's happy with the other one because she wouldn't left you over him in the first place if she really loves you, right?
azeljeorge
@azeljeorge (56)
• Philippines
2 Jul 10
Moving on i guess is the best advice that anyone can say yet it is also the hardest one. But on the case like that, you have no much choice but to move on, after all the world will still turn around even if she's out of the picture. If she left you for another guy then maybe she's not the right girl for you and the right one might be waiting out there. Why would we lengthen our time for the person that we would not end with. Remember the more time that we spent with the wrong person will lessen the time that we should spend to the right one. Acceptance for moving on is essential.