Women who use you kids to hurt men

I will never understand why there are women that will do this both to their children and also to their ex-husbands/boyfriends. The way that I see it is that it takes two people to bring a child into this world, and therefore, a child should have the opportunity throughout their lives to have a good relationship with both of their parents. This means that a child should be able to spend time with both of their parents and also that one parent should never talk badly about the other parent around their children.

WHAT other method do you suggest to these women to take revenge on you.. and, hurt you. I once heard a quote from the villain of a movie--telling to the hero, that it is the tendency of those who want to win ... it is always easy to hit you, where you are sensitive, and where it hurts you more .. RIGHT? .. =-----------------while I SYMPATHIZE your situation.