what do you do when you have had enough
By _hope_
@_hope_ (3902)
Australia
33 responses
@Ally_Angel (423)
• New Zealand
18 Nov 06
Hugs to you my friend. Hope that you feel better soon. Hope to catch up with ya sometime soon.
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@Ally_Angel (423)
• New Zealand
19 Nov 06
You are a really great person... I am saying lots of prayers that you feel better soon:) Hugs!
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@LovingIt (5396)
• United States
18 Nov 06
I reach out for someone that understands what I'm going through -- someone that will listen. What's wrong?
@LovingIt (5396)
• United States
19 Nov 06
Yes, you can. If you have nobody else to talk to, talk to God. He's always there and whether you know it or not, He's listening to you. Tell Him how you feel. Tell Him that you know that you don't know the answer but that He does and ask Him to lead you to it. Then have faith. That's the hard part, but it will work. You just have to hang on.
You do need to get therapy though and get back on the right meds. That and putting your trust in God will work wonders. I've been there. :-) I know how it feels to feel like you just can't go on. Don't focus on tomorrow, just focus on getting through today. Tomorrow focus on getting through tomorrow. Just take it one day at a time right now until you feel better.
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@_hope_ (3902)
• Australia
20 Nov 06
Thankyou LovingIt your words are lovely it`s a shame that there are not more understanding people out there .
I do speak regularly to god asking for his help ,and guidance to make it through each day and we are slowly getting there .in my books there are no weeks months or years anymore it`s an hour at a time and then a day
meds are good but they don`t treat the cause they tend to mask it . i know what the cause of it all was but dealing with it is everso hard for me
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@firelight (1858)
• Australia
17 Nov 06
Have a cry, let it all out, then pick myself back up and keep going...
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@merrymell2000 (318)
• Australia
21 Nov 06
Oh Crap thats not good.
Are they both ok ?
I think you need to just pack up and go somewhere alone preferably a deserted island with a massage guy.
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@ossie16d (11821)
• Australia
12 Dec 06
Thankfully I have never reached that stage, but come close a few times over the years _hope_. These days when things get a bit too much for me, I take myself off to somewhere quiet, listen to soft music and read. After a while I am ready to come out and join the real world once again.
However, it sounds like your problem is a little bit more than that. I am sorry that you are on a bit of a "downer" and know how hard it can be to dig yourself out of a hole once you fall into it. If you seriously have a problem, then you should see a good caring Doctor, preferably Psychologist or Psychiatrist who can help you. Sometimes we do need medication, even if only for a while, to get us over that little hill. My husband has some problems but he regularly sees his specialist who helps him no end. That means I am also getting some help, which in turn means that I can cope better with him. He too suffered from severe panic attacks, but they subsided once he was on medication. I am not advocating taking medication all the time, but sometimes it does help.
Chin up _hope_ and take heart that things will get better, but sometimes it does take some time for that to happen.
@_hope_ (3902)
• Australia
20 Dec 06
Thankyou ossie and i do hope your hubby continues improve each day thus in turn making life a bit easier on you. I have professional help and have done so for quite a while now by all those who you have mentioned above .I am on medication and it has just been trippled so just waiting to see if that wil make a difference . i just find each day brings another problem if that would stop then just maybe i could handle things a bit better but Christmas will be hard it is going to be my mothers last one with us .I just can`t bring myself to even tell my kids yet .
@ossie16d (11821)
• Australia
28 Jan 07
Just popping in hope to check that you are still here with us and maybe feeling even just a teeny weeny little bit better, and certainly no worse.
My dear friend, remember one small step forward at a time, although sometimes there is a bit of a fall but soon enough you will pick up. Who else is going to brighten our day here on myLot if you don't. :)
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@_hope_ (3902)
• Australia
28 Jan 07
Hello there ossie yes i around but just not as much as i use to be
I will send you PM i have sent you a couple but you may not of recieved them.
I only arrived home on thursday have been away for a while .
Life is moving along slow but the steps all seem to be backwards more than forwards but i will get there
@Ally_Angel (423)
• New Zealand
18 Nov 06
I don't think that is a very appropriate joke for someone feeling this way. I just thought I would let you know that.
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@keshavb4u (53)
• India
20 Dec 06
wen i have had enuf.. i make sure tht other person also has more than wat i had... lol.... wat u talkin abt but ???
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@yurikakok77 (694)
• Philippines
20 Nov 06
Hello! Go back to basics... Go back to God with faith, He has a purpose for everything! Try to view Benny Hinn Ministy. www.BennyHinn.org They will help you a lot about spirituality. Nothing is impossible with God. Try to reach Christian counsellors or Christian Ministry. I include you in my prayer list. God bless you my dear friend! Take care! Smile!!! God loves you and cares for you... I love you with the love of the Lord!
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@yurikakok77 (694)
• Philippines
20 Nov 06
Hello! Go back to basics... Go back to God with faith, He has a purpose for everything! Try to view Benny Hinn Ministy. www.BennyHinn.org They will help you a lot about spirituality. Nothing is impossible with God. Try to reach Christian counsellors or Christian Ministry. I include you in my prayer list. God bless you my dear friend! Take care! Smile!!! God loves you and cares for you... I love you with the love of the Lord!
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@orionsmomma (1077)
• United States
21 Nov 06
I normally just go in the bathroom and cry my heart out.
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