What you will do if you caught your husband in the act of womanizing?
By airasheila
@airasheila (5454)
Philippines
July 3, 2010 8:51am CST
Good day to you.
Generally, men are born polygamous. As they say, they remain single unless they tie the knot. And there are times, though men are already married, they keep on saying they are single unless somebody caught them in the act.
Hence, what if you heard that your husband is having another affair. That he is courting another girl and he is in the act of womanizing. I know, the feeling is somehow painful but as much as possible, we, woman does not want to believe. However, what if one day, you found it and witnessed it by yourself, what will you do if you caught your husband in the act of womanizing?
6 responses
@Ithink (10106)
• United States
6 Jul 10
In short I would kick him out and tell him I hope it was worth it and then file for child support. Emotionally I would be devastated, this is something I dont really worry about thou as for some reason he always tells me no one could replace me. After all our years married we are still doing good.
@dfhonline (130)
• Philippines
5 Jul 10
If that ever happens, I would flip out! But if its just rumors and hearsay, I would try to get more evidence, hehehe.
Anyway, before we got married, me and my husband talked about this. I told him, he only get 1 chance. His father once cheated on his mom and he was old enough to understand how it makes things complicated and painful for all the parties involve, especially for the children. Fortunately, his parent were able to patch things up. But I told him I'm not his mom, and I wont be as forgiving. And he understand. Am pretty sure he wont try anything stupid. ;)
@aguas_aj (498)
• Philippines
3 Jul 10
This is really a hard to put myself situation coz I really can't accept it and il be depress for hundred years. But If i'll caught him in the act,(il take some picture even in my celphone) and if I'm not with my kids. Il drag the girl's hair and smash her face to the nearest concrete I can find. Then I'll take my husband's wallet and let him walk to home. If he'll arrive home, il definitely make a mess out of his self (but I'll secure that the kids are not home).. I'll make him pay for it. Il even get him fired especially if the girl works at the same office. same with girl, il definitely ruin their life for cheating on me
@edwardjoy2000 (2386)
• United Arab Emirates
3 Jul 10
My wife was possesive about me. She never like me talking to any of the girls. She used to check my cell phone. But i know that its just her love and insecure feeling. i would just think about the pain she would go throuh before having an extra marital affair.
@rosebinas (180)
• Philippines
4 Jul 10
I'd do nothing but calmly ask him, "What would you feel if I were the one doing it to you?". If he doesn't say a word in response, I'll take it that he has already fallen in love with the other woman, I'll ask him again... "Are you really serious about this woman?"- If he still doesn't answer back, I'll take it as a YES, and I won't stop him anymore. I'd let him go. As far as I am concerned, I know how nice a person I am, and I know I could love him so much more than any other woman can- and I'd feel sorry for him because he is the one whose losing me! Man, that was a tough question!!
@sweetloveforeve (13116)
• Portugal
3 Jul 10
if i had an husband and catched him cheating i would definetely say he is a pig and dont want see his face again. Would want the divorce sure bcs who cheats is bcs is not in love completely. when we love really we dont cheat so i wouldnt forget that even if i wanted to. I could be hurt and cry but wouldnt humiliate myself more. We all have a right person for us so we dont need to spend our time with a guy that lied to us
