First Love

@topetotz (163)
Philippines
July 3, 2010 11:35pm CST
Can you still remember your first love? I do, although we didn't work and don't communicate that much often any more, we're still good friends, in fact we're bestfriends. We have learned a lot about relationship, about giving and taking, understanding and about ourselves, have shared a lot of fun, exciting and sweet moments and to top it all we have helped each other to be a better person in the processed. I just remembered her right now, that's why i decided to make a topic about this and i think i owe her a lot, gotta give credit for her. How about you guys, did it work? Thanks and much respect.
16 responses
@Ladyslipper (1327)
• Philippines
4 Jul 10
I still remember him though ours did not work out. I can't say that we are still friends. We no longer have communication though we have the same circle of friends. We were classmates during high school and became a pair after graduation in College. Ours was a long distance relationship. We began to fall apart when we both started working. We no longer have constant communication. Until one day we just had to say goodbye. I learned a lot from him though. I'm now happy with my own life. I already have a husband and two kids.
• Philippines
10 Jul 10
Wow! It's amazing to know that a part of my life story is somewhat parallel with a part of someone else life story here in Mylot. I really thought that what we had way back then was so strong and that we will end up together as husband and wife. However, fate is a joker. We got separated because of our different goals in life. Fate found a way for us to meet again after more than 6 years and then we became a couple but fate also separated us after just 9 months. Maybe it was just a test and we failed. I have no regrets though because I love my husband so much and I'm very happy with him.
@topetotz (163)
• Philippines
5 Jul 10
I see common things in our story, we were classmates too during high school, have the same circle of friends and eventually had our most tough times when we got to a long distance relationship. Glad that you're happy with your own life now.
• Philippines
5 Jul 10
My first love was in college cause well I didn't care much about girls all my life until that time. She was just a friend. We weren't even close really. Everyone hated her because she was very pretentious but she was nice to me. I tried to date her though but didn't work out.
@topetotz (163)
• Philippines
5 Jul 10
well you know what they say if it doesn't work out, move on mate.
@aguas_aj (498)
• Philippines
4 Jul 10
i had other relationship prior to my first love which happens to be my husband also, but i would say that same as you I learned a lot to him as my first love.I guess the reason why you learn and hurt a lot to your first love because it where you give and pour 101 percent of your self.
@topetotz (163)
• Philippines
5 Jul 10
yeah you're probably right. glad to hear that you ended up with your first love.
• United States
5 Jul 10
Sadly I can because we are still together. (Not sad, but kinda funny). I guess I owe him still because of him I am beginning to grow up rather than slack off like a kid. Also at least someone showers me with a bit too much affection.
@topetotz (163)
• Philippines
5 Jul 10
lol good for you then. goodluck to the both of you.
@baban88 (103)
• Philippines
5 Jul 10
wow u sure a better man now,anyways I really don't remember the detail but as far as i remember it, it really feels me weird and at the same time it feels good like there is rain of cherry blossom every-time i saw her even now we're friends in facebook the feeling remains even-though she already have a Boyfriend. we really don't talk much everytime she get online we just greet each other and had a small talks but we really don't share much but for me shes a friend. . =]
@topetotz (163)
• Philippines
5 Jul 10
thanks mate. yeah like there is rain of cherry blossom. glad you're still friends too.
@leo2050 (348)
• India
4 Jul 10
First love; how can i forget my first love. I was in 7th standard when the first feeling of love got struck onto my heart. I was madly in love with my classmate. But that time, i had no much courage to tell her about my feelings. We were best friends that time and this lasted till three years. After that, i changed my school and we never met again. but still i love here very much, i wish if i could get her back then i will surely marry her.
@topetotz (163)
• Philippines
5 Jul 10
Yeah why not go after her mate? Go for it.
@_sketch_ (5742)
• United States
6 Jul 10
I don't have a first love.
• Germany
5 Jul 10
I remember my first Love, he is my first Kiss, first hug, and all the first. We have to part ways bec accdg to him, i was so restless. I wanted to settle down and he was not ready. So he let me go. Unfortunately he got another woman pregnant...and have to marry her. It has been 20 yrs ago...and just last month, i found him in FB!! He was so surprised. He invited me to meet him right that afternoon he rcvd my message. He told me he still love me and miss me for all the 2 decades ...and that i still got a HUGE place in himself. (that is how he wrote it - HUGE) LOL But i am not in the country now...and i am married too. I find it sort of a nice memory to reminisce ... and now we are like before, good good friends. We can talk to each other just like before ...no pretences, no secrets...but on a different level now - not more romantic. More like i am his sister & he is my older brother. And his song for me : One Friend from Dann Seals.
• India
4 Jul 10
Yes even i remember my first love. I can never forget her as long as i live. I was just moving to my new house and was unpacking my stuff when i saw a girl just coming out of her house. I was mesmerized by her at first sight. I couldn't believe that such an angel even existed in this world. I followed her all the way to the top of the apartment where she started playing badminton. I stared at her for an entire hour just watching her play. I can't ever forget that first moment of my love life. And since then every time i saw her my eyes would not blink at all.
@topetotz (163)
• Philippines
5 Jul 10
Yeah i think that's love at first sight man lol.
@BLD367 (142)
• United States
4 Jul 10
All too well. Its been 13+ years and I still remember in detail the first day I met her. To make a long story very short, it did not work out mainly because of my ineptitude. She is my friend though, and I feel very lucky about that. Love is strange. I went around my life, not doing much and she enters and I felt it immediately. It just seemed then ( and even now) that she was meant for me. I am not talking about desire. We seemed to be matched ( well at least in my mind). But as how most things go in life, oftentimes being in the right place at the right time is more important than being the right person. But as said earlier, she is my friend still, and I feel very luck about that.
@topetotz (163)
• Philippines
5 Jul 10
Totally man, love is really strange. Glad that he's still your friend too.
6 Jul 10
sweet story. does not matter if you are willing and rady to give credit to him. he is a friends. to maintain that friendship. should give it. he is not your first love.
• United Arab Emirates
4 Jul 10
I definately remember my first love....But i dont wanna think about this. Its difficult to remove the memories but its better not to think about those things. But i consider my wife to be my first and last true love. i am happy with her than with anyone in this world.
@topetotz (163)
• Philippines
5 Jul 10
lol its not like you're cheating if you would think about it. but glad too, that you're loyal to your wife. Keep it up mate.
• Ethiopia
5 Jul 10
I do remember my first love i do also remember my first boyfriend he is so handsome and very nice guy,you make me to remember the good times in my life thanks.
4 Jul 10
I am almost 50 years old now and doubt i will ever forget my first love. I was 10 years old and met her in the village we both lived in, she was the personification of beauty and i was experiencing feelings i didnt realise i had. After all these years i can still remember those feelings, and although i moved on years ago still there remains a glowing spark in my heart
@veronizm (907)
• Philippines
5 Jul 10
Hi topetotz. My first love is actually now my husband =) We've been together for 7 years now although we've just been married a couple of months ago. It's a blessed union I must say. We've experienced a lot of storms during our years together and not to brag but I'm really proud of us :) I still love him dearly and will still do till the end of time ;)
• China
5 Jul 10
I must say that I am in my first love now. I mean I met my wife before, and changed her from being girlfriend into being my wife. And the memory of love stays with me, and it is even increasing beacause of being together. People often hold the view that marriage is the grave of love in China. But I am opposite to it. I think with passion, understangding, care, and faith, first love can be forever and the marriage will be the perfect example of our offspring.