Best friend becoming lover

@leo2050 (348)
India
July 4, 2010 3:28pm CST
From past few days, i have been noticing that i am getting very close to my best friend. I always want to hear her voice, want to chat with her on phone everytime. I think iam getting attracted to her. Should i propose her or wait. I also dont wanna loose her. Please post your opinion guys.
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6 responses
• China
5 Jul 10
In my opinion, You should take more time. YOu can give her more hint. I think she will feel your feeling. Good luck!
• United States
4 Jul 10
usually when you best friends with someone it sometimes lead to becoming lovers. you start to notice you both have a lot in common and yall can talk to each other about anything.some people have their limits as far as best friends n others feel like taking it to the next level. before you do dat you have to ask yourself...is getting into a relationship worth possibly ruining a good friendship? only you can make that decision at the end of the day
@sk66rc (4250)
• United States
4 Jul 10
When you say propose, do you mean asking her to marry you? I believe marriage requires little more than just an "attraction". I understand it plays large part in it but I don't think you should ask her to marry you just because you've been attracted to her for "few days". Let her know you are attracted to her & see where it takes you both. If she is as close of a friend you say she is, she should be at least willing to listen and talk to you about it. If the feeling is mutual, then go out with her for few month, even years. And when I say years, I don't mean 8 - 9 years, I'm talking about next year or two & see how it goes.
@aquariand (464)
4 Jul 10
Proposing seems a little drastic, maybe you should see if these feelings stay with you and try and work out if she feels the same, ask her if she feels anything for you if not stay friends
@kodukodu84 (1569)
• Malaysia
4 Jul 10
Just keep it cool. Rushing it is just going to "scare" her, unless if she is showing the same sign too then that's no problem. If you are already on a friendship term with her, then why don't you make the friendship sweeter and happier. That's a better idea. If you don't want to lose her, then keep the friendship, spend more time, talk to her often...always try to make her comfortable with you but in easy way, not too obvious. Then when she got very comfortable being around you, then there maybe a chance of her thinking about the same way with you. Good luck and happy mylotting
@amrddy (215)
• Philippines
4 Jul 10
I think you have to think twice before doing anything. Are you sure your feelings are actually those of 'LOVE", think about it. It should be a mutual relationship, it might be that you are feeling that way whereas your friend does not. Would you rather lose a friend to having a "reluctant lover"?