Does a man should insist on his career
By zhui126
@zhui126 (3)
China
July 5, 2010 3:30am CST
It confuses me these days. I am sucessful in dotoral study, and I can go to any places I want. However, I am married. My wife has to stay where she begin her study, because no job are available for her in other places. Ok, that's fine, I will stay, I give up fine jobs in other places to stay with her. Now, here comes the problem. She gets a better job, so she begin to ignore me, and acts like even without me, she can manage this work. However, she dosen't. Because, the reason she can stay is that I do a lot of work for her, and earn a lot of fame for her in her territory. Now, I feel that love may not be built on only love, it also should be built on a man insisting on his career and sticking to it.
1 response
@rocket2020 (524)
• India
5 Jul 10
Wonder !!!
Welcome Dear zhui126,
First of all there shouldn't be any competition among the spouse,instead when each one is capable of certain jobs then each of the two must encourage each other to excel upon individual capabilities and at the same time must share the household chores together in a planned manner,so that none of the two gets too much burden of the household chores alone;sit-down, pen-down, the chart that"who will do what,corresponding to the Time."
Enjoy your married life happily immensely and lovingly,there's no place for either the man or the women to dominate over the other spouse,its only the life,relationship and love;that is what matters at the end of our life,and that is what is important then anything else.
