Shoul the man buy gifts for the children of his new girlfriend

United States
July 5, 2010 10:06am CST
I think when a guy or a girl come into a relationship that they should know that their mate comes as a package deal, which means if it is the kids birthday buy a gift. However, don't start buying gifts for no reason or she will think you are trying to buy the kid with gifts. What do you think about this?
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@lilybug (21107)
• United States
5 Jul 10
I agree. Gifts for special occasions should be expected, but showering them with gifts for no reason is inappropriate.
• United States
5 Jul 10
Absolutely!
• United Arab Emirates
5 Jul 10
I feel its always ok to buy gifts for children on special ocassions...There is nothing harm in it. Children love gifts. Why will the new girl / guy protest this.
• United States
5 Jul 10
No but the guys I have talked to feel that they are being pressured to do this, and I think when you go out with a girl who has children that you should buy gifts on birthdays and special occasions but that it is not a requirement to just have to buy gifts.