Would you break someone's heart?

@ivygrey (550)
Philippines
July 6, 2010 9:50am CST
Before you think of anything bad, I have no intention of breaking someone's heart. But would you? especially if you think you have fallen out of of love, but in the first place not everyone would just fall out of love especially if they think that their so in love. I just hate it when people do this so easily..
17 responses
• Philippines
9 Jul 10
I would, if and only if it's the right thing to do. The effect/s of breaking someone's heart is not a joke to you and to the one whom you did it. I'd probably do it in a 'processed' way, like I'd approach my partner first and explain to him the truth about how I feel..stuff like that. I'd make sure that though I've hurt him, the way I did it is not that hurtful (if you know what I mean). Just don't do it abruptly. Be nice even if there is hurt.
@jennbart (1330)
• Philippines
8 Jul 10
For me if I would be breaking someone's poor heart I will do it in such a way that I will talk to him even if the news is going to be a bad one. If someone will be breaking mine, I would prefer the person to talk to me too. Its respectful that way, and also, it will be more possible for us to turn into friends in the future with no ill feelings towards each other.
@dierdre (2207)
• Philippines
7 Jul 10
Well, in my opinion, i think if its inevitable, then it has to be done. No use in holding on when the love aint strong. (wow that rhymes! Lol!) i also read this quote regarding love, it says that, 'its better to be hurt by the truth than be comforted by lie'. So true right? So when you dont love a person, better to tell it to them straight rather than making them feel that you dont love them anymore. The truth shall set you free.
• Philippines
7 Jul 10
Does breaking someone's heart are always intended. I believe no. Sometimes decision brokes the heart of both, but that is what it had supposed to be. It is not about breaking the heart, it always involved sacrifices and pain of course. No one wants to broke the heart of someone. I, myself, don't want to do that. But circumstances happen that we have to end the relationship and broke the heart of someone and we have no choice but to do it. If the is the best thing to do, even it is hard, i will break someone's heart.
@rosebinas (180)
• Philippines
7 Jul 10
Breaking somebody's heart has never been easy, but it has to be done anyways. Lest, you'd continue lying to the other person and become miserable yourself for still being in a relationship that no longer makes you happy. However, doing it gently would be the kindest way of asking someone to set you free.
@Raulz0r (26)
• Romania
7 Jul 10
It is very hard for me to break up with someone that we used to be in love, especially its very hard to see her cry, if she cries I always try to help her and not leave her to the ground.
@velentina (891)
• Mauritius
6 Jul 10
Today itself I broke someone's heart. A close relative sent me a message to tell me that he loved me and wanted to have a secret relationship with me.....I refused immediately......although I have no husband I do not want to have a relationship in the family. That person's heart was broken he was even weeping. But I had to take a decision.
@simonelee (2715)
• China
7 Jul 10
Hi, Ivy. There are many ways in breaking your partners heart unconsciously. Situations like normal discussions that leads to fight. But when you say breaking his/her because you cheated??? It's a big issue why a person lead to that. I broke my partner's heart twice and it made her changed. I can feel that the pain is there even she accepted me again. Now, I'm putting so much effort to win her back. I know it's not enough that she accepted me again to be part of her life.
@maria1081 (1251)
• Philippines
7 Jul 10
YES I WOULD, even if it hurts someone.Because I would like to be honest with my feelings. The longer it would be painful if you prolong the agony by lying and making pretences. I just dont want to give false hope to anyone.
• India
7 Jul 10
No....I never did it...I won't like to brake anyone's heart.
@dian21 (606)
• Philippines
7 Jul 10
When you fall out of love, there are probably several reasons or factors why it came to that point. There is a deep-rooted problem. Because it is not just like a snap of a finger that the feelings or love will just fade away. It's not easy to break someone's heart. But if there is no love anymore, there's no point of continuing the relationship rather than continue to hurt each other.
@jennbart (1330)
• Philippines
7 Jul 10
Usually, I would not. But I really need to like Ive fallen out of love because I have gotten tired of whatever. I would rather tell him I want OUT than cheat on him with someone else.
• Ethiopia
7 Jul 10
Breaking someone's heart is a very bad thing i also break someone's heart and regret so much
@topetotz (163)
• Philippines
6 Jul 10
I wouldn't do such a thing, never. I don't wanna break someone's heart. I too hate people who says there in love today and tomorrow breaks the person heart. These people who do this, just got no heart in themselves, they're selfish, but love is not. So if you really do love someone, you ain't gonna broke their hearts. Thanks for the topic Much respect
@hanagi (390)
• Philippines
6 Jul 10
I don't want to break someone's heart but if I fall out of love I think I might because it would just hurt more if I lie to him that I love him. It takes alot of courage to break someone's heart. Some hurt without wanting to. Sometimes you cannot do things to avoid this.
@rosie230 (1696)
6 Jul 10
I would not break someone's heart... I know how it feels and it is not the most pleasant feeling I have ever felt, so I would not intentionally inflict that kind of pain on someone else. If I fell out of love with my boyfriend then I know by telling him that I don't love him any more would break his heart, but it would be for the best, rather than continue to have a relationship with him that is based on nothing but a lie.
• India
6 Jul 10
i don't think anyone would want to break someone's heart no matter what the cost. But even my heart has been broken now and i don't know what should i do. My girlfriend rejected me after dating for like two years and i don't really think that i could even go in someones's heart after this...