Sometimes I don't mean what I said in a hurtful way

United States
July 7, 2010 3:17pm CST
Sometimes I deeply regret what I have said to people, my friends, family members. I was in a moment of irritation, and I didn't mean what I said. Some people might get hurt and after it, I deeply thought about it, I felt regretful. I always told myself I shouldn't say something like that; that is hurtful for people to hear it. So, right here, I would deeply apologize for my misbehavior, and sorry for the people I had hurt in the past.
3 responses
@bubulizzz (508)
• Latvia
7 Jul 10
Have you ever tried to change this situation? Have you ever tried to overcome your hurtful words? Do you feel better when you vent one's wrath?
• United States
7 Jul 10
Actually, I felt bad, but sometimes at the moment of angry, I just blurt it out without thinking. I always want to change it, sometimes I can control it, sometimes I just say it without mind. What an awful person I am, am I?
• Latvia
7 Jul 10
You are as most people in the world - you react on some event in your life and so your egocentric nature is so powerful you react with anger. I have made researches about such emotion explosions and have found that best method what can be used to change this situation is written in Kabbalah writings.
14 Jul 10
I will say mean or hurtful things. 99% of the time, I wish I could take them back, because I know that I definitely don't mean them.I was never like this in my previous relationships, but I was also never put in the position to feel so frustrated and angry as I do sometimes in this relationship.
• India
7 Jul 10
Whatever we speak cannot go back to our mouth and its very important to take some time before we speak. We do not intent to hurt people but wrong words does harm the emotions of others. Maybe I did not want to say what other person understood but those words were mine from which s/he concluded the meaning. Being carefull before speaking anything is really a good habit and one can save friends and relations.