Have you help someone that in the end you suffer?

@hanagi (390)
Philippines
July 8, 2010 3:42am CST
I had help someone and responded to his need. He promised and I had hope that he would do it in return. In the end I suffer and don't know what to do because of the help I have given him. Also, because of that I seldom help people. I always think first of the consequences before responding to their call.
4 responses
@bird123 (10658)
• United States
9 Jul 10
To help or to suffer??? Choose!! I choose to help is much more important. I do it unconditionally to those I bump into. It won't take long and many will want to help you. Never value the bad or the hurt over goodness. In time, it all returns.
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
8 Jul 10
That also happened to me before. I helped someone and in the end, I got into trouble. SOmetimes helping others is not really worth it if things like this happen. That's why I am always careful now whom I should help so that I wont get into trouble anymore.
@raynejasper (2322)
• Philippines
8 Jul 10
..hi.. yeah.. I've suffered that recently.. That's why, just like you, I have already the feeling of reservation that before I help other people especially when it comes to money matters, I have to assess my needs first and see if I'll be needing the money for important things.. Right now also, I don't easily trust people.. there are people who just wanted to be helped but they don't like to extend help to others also.. they are unfair and they don't deserve to be helped..
8 Jul 10
Yeah, I guess U just not lucky. I think when we help someone, we may not think about getting something in return. Otherwise we may got big dissapointment. In other hand, before helping people we got to make sure that we already help ourself. Give food to someone when we're starving is not right. We're not an angel right??