how importance the virginity ?

Indonesia
July 9, 2010 12:29pm CST
In this era may be I am too silly when talking about virginity, may be I am have an old preview about relation ship. But can you imagine when you get married and your wife give you her virginty first time only for you... Although its so difficult (I think.. hahaha.. ) But I wondering, I wish.. someone that I love will give her virginity for me after marriage... I am the chosen one... :)
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@ET28LV (1890)
• Latvia
9 Jul 10
I think virginity have a big significance, but in nowadays many teenagers want to do it earlier and earlier. Why we need to run somewhere there would be many time to do it in future. Do you remember how was a time earlier? People lost their virginity on wedding night. It is a miracle If in this world is people who save their virginity to weeding night. Many man are rate it very positive If they have a girl who is virgin. I can confess I am virgin and I will wait my time when I meet my soul mate girl.
• Portugal
9 Jul 10
is cute to read what you said^^ wish you meet a very special girl^^ virgin guys are very hard to find nowadays is like for most part of boys and girls it doesnt matter they just want lose it and they lose not really giving a meaning to it^^ im happy that there are still guys like you that dont do it just for fun but wait for the right person^^
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• United Arab Emirates
9 Jul 10
I never asked my wife is she was a virgin or not....it really does not matter to me as long as she is loyal to me in future. And i know ahe has been. I also have been loyal to her and i will be loyal to her in future as i love her lots and she also loves me lots.
• Indonesia
9 Jul 10
yeah, I ever read that the most importance in relation ship is not a love, but the commitment... I only wondering may be most beautiful if she still virgin and I am the first person that she gave.
@diamania (7011)
• Netherlands
9 Jul 10
Would be pretty awesome if my future girl loses her virginity thanks to me, but it's definitely not important. Having a loving, enriching ( etc) partner is more important than just one detail. There's also no need to wait until marriage in my opinion, but that's just the values I have been raised with. ;-)
• Indonesia
9 Jul 10
Agree.. :)
• India
10 Jul 10
not necessary,virginity is also damaged by different sports,why think unnecesary ,enjoy life .think positive and have faith in partner
• India
9 Jul 10
I'm very sure about my virginity issues. I'll only give it to that one person whom I'll get married to. I have a boyfriend whom I have been dating for the past two years. I have talked to him about it and he is completely fine with it. He respects my decision. We'll be getting married soon and only then I'll lose my virginity to him. It becomes difficult at times to control your emotions especially when everyone around you is mating. But, I remained true to my decision and sometimes when I'm with my boyfriend talking about our past, somehow I feel I got no regrets about not losing my virginity to some loser like many of my school friends.
• Indonesia
9 Jul 10
wow.. that is great, you are so lucky have an understanding boy friend.
• Philippines
10 Jul 10
losing a person's virgi-nity before marriage, now a days, is just a matter of personal prerogative. whether a person (most likely a girl) is ready or not. there's really no specific age as to when a person should and should not engage in se-x. things to consider are emotional stability and maturity to face whatever consequences (whether good or bad) that would arise after. personally, virginity is important and i have nothing against those people who treat losing it like a part of adoloscent. it actually ticks me off when i hear and see people (teenagers mostly) get pregnant and get worried and opts to abort the baby when in fact they could have saved themselves from facing a morality issue if they only waited for the right time.
@jlydsnr (122)
• United States
9 Jul 10
There were times when my husband and I wished we would've saved ourselves for one another but we didn't.:( We always give praise to our friends that do or did wait. The only thing my husband and I can say is that we gave our hearts to each other and the rest of our lives. That's two things we are glad we keeped for marriage. Sounds weird, but you can love anyone. Only one person can have your heart. We accept things they way they are. I do believe that it takes a very strong person especially in this day and age to save themselves to marriage; and I believe they deserve more credit then they are given. If someone is a virgin they should be proud that they are a strong individual and not part of the lost croud.
• India
9 Jul 10
I too think that emotional attachment is much more important. It would be more difficult for me to accept someone who is emotionally attached to somebody else than the one who perhaps would had been physical with someone in past but now is really in love with me and is attached to me emotionally. So virginity takes a back seat when love is the driving force. take care!!
• Portugal
9 Jul 10
yes thats sweet^^ even you say is rare it all depends of the girl^^ for me i think we must not give to any guy but to a guy we really love and you are right virginity is special^^ is so good to know that there are still guys like you that appreciate that^^ most part of girls are not caring for it anymore is true but it also depends of the girl^^ wish you can find one that chooses you as the one for her but even if she is not virgin as long as she loves you thats the most important^^