When is the proper time to start a romantic love?

China
July 11, 2010 9:46am CST
Maybe this is a well-trodden topic for you mature guys to discuss.But as a young man who is to some extent confused about this issue,I'd like to hear your voluable advice or just your fantastic experience.So my dear mylot friends,when you start your first love?I haven't got the gorgeous experience of love even I am already 21.It is really a tragedy.
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13 responses
• Philippines
11 Jul 10
Hi Shutong, Since you are still young, I bet you are not in a hurry to get into a relationship but even so, you might be considering having such romantic adventures at this time. Just remember that you do not plan falling in love. It's not like you are going on a trip to a vacation destination and you plan every itinerary for that trip. When you fall in love, you simply know that you are in love and you can't help it. But when you do, you can somehow choose to pursue it or you can deprive yourself, that is all up to you. Potentially, if you decide to pursue it, there are things you have to consider and first is your readiness to face the responsibilities and/or consequences for mistakes. You should be ready emotionally, physically, spiritually, financially and don't forget the moral obligations attached to it. Don't rush into things, for all you know the perfect time is yet to come and you do not decide when. You will know when it is and you will be relieved that you waited. Have a nice day!
• China
12 Jul 10
Thank you very much for your annotation of love for me.It seems to be a lot of work.
• Portugal
11 Jul 10
no dont say that shutong^^ me also im 20 and i didnt have a bf yet. i liked guys before sure but we never been in a relationship or i liked them and they didnt or the opposite and i never said anything to them. anyway love is miss that person much and if we feel that person want us away it really hurt much. anyway about you that didnt feel love yet is ok dont worry^^ we cant know the exact date when it will happen^^ also you are just 21 you still have many years to live and a lot of girls to meet ahah^^ anyway wish you meet a sweet one that really loves you^^ and maybe you find just one that is meant to be the only one for you ahah maybe thats why you didnt find her yet^^
• China
12 Jul 10
Thank you so much!Your comments are much appreciated.Best wish for you and me!
@sikat101 (149)
• Philippines
12 Jul 10
Only you can tell when the right time is. When it comes, you will know it. Take your time, young man. It is not a race. The one who finish first is not always the winner.
• China
12 Jul 10
I start my first love when I was 20 year old in the college . I love my classmate and have a romantic love with her . And we still keep a love relationship until now . Both of us feel happy because of our love . I am sure that is my gorgeous experience of love .
@greenpeas (998)
• Philippines
12 Jul 10
It will come at a time when you least expect it. The thing is...The one you love may be somebody you are taking for granted right now, then you realize days, months, and even years after that she is the one but when you go back for her its too late. The best technique to find love is to open up your heart and look for signs of it.
@Suggar (3606)
• Bulgaria
12 Jul 10
U never know when u will fall in love ... Sometimes it takes only some days, sometimes months ... U can start a romantic love when u feel that the other person understand the love on same way like u.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
11 Jul 10
i think it depends on you my friend.if you think now is the right time, so do it.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
11 Jul 10
As they say,love comes from the most unexpected places and moment in time. We can never tell when is the proper time to start a romantic love. Love comes in our heart without warning. It just happen in time,and will stuck in your heart,make you immobile for a second,the,make you crazy for a lifetime Yes,love is so mysterious. You will never knew when it strikes you,you never knew when it will come flying into your heart. You will come to know when is the right time,the moment you become romantic to your beloved someone
@markphil (285)
• Philippines
12 Jul 10
Of course the proper time to start romantic love is when you are already in a major age, usually 18 years old. But most of the time, you feel it even you are only 16.
• United Arab Emirates
11 Jul 10
i fell i love when i was 16....i thought it was love...but it was just an infatution. I have done lots of things from engraving her name on my hand to sending letters. i never knew about true love until i fell in love when i was 24. I loved this girl so much that my whole was against it..but i decided to do what i wanted...i married the same girl 6 years later.
@jayen28 (84)
11 Jul 10
There is no one can tell when is the proper time to start a romantic love. Because love came your way in time you never expected. the place that you never imagined. When comes in your way you can't say NO!!!But then you can prepare your future. If you are financially stable and can built a better home for your family then go plan a future to the one you really love. GOD BLESS!!!
@jerikjames (1041)
• Philippines
12 Jul 10
Well my first love seems to be my last. lol. I'm really really lucky to have found the right one for me in high school. Early it may seem, we've been through a lot of problems, hurdles, and obstacles in our relationship, and we've remained strong and getting stronger for the past 5 years of our relationship. We've learned a lot about love, how we should nurture each other holistically, think about what's good for eac other, love, take care, and respect for each other. You're 21 right? You're still young. You'll be meeting a lot of people, and I'm sure you'll be entering a lot of relationships. Just open your eyes and wait for the right person for you.
@vhings_88 (294)
• Philippines
11 Jul 10
I don't know if there's really a "right time" for having a romantic love. Love comes in the right time.You could not find true love even if you search for it, it just comes in your way and its up to you if you will grab it. Maybe at least you start having romance with someone when you know already how to handle it. be responsible enough in having a relationship if you wanted it to prosper. happy myLotting!!