I am so sorry, myLot, but it's hard for me to make time for you!

United States
July 11, 2010 4:24pm CST
Dear myLot, I miss you so much. I just...can't seem to find the time for you! I know! What a shocker, right? I mean, you are such a big part of my day! But tomorrow, I have to work until noon and then get my car inspected and...the hours I spent on here have to be shortened. No day long expeditions rummaging through your discussions. I am sorry. And I am sad. Sincerely, Stephanie ----- [b]Dear myLotters, Have you ever felt this way about myLot? You want to come on here as much as you can, but you just can't make the time? What do you do about it? When do you come onto myLot? Has your schedule changed recently that affects your time here on myLot? [/b]
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16 responses
@1hopefulman (45111)
• Canada
12 Jul 10
Yes, my time is limited and so can't spend as much time here and comment on too many posts as I would like to. Other things need to cared for. Besides I don't think spending too much time in front of a computer screen is that healthy for us. We need exercise!
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@1hopefulman (45111)
• Canada
17 Jul 10
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@T_Diamond (965)
• New Zealand
11 Jul 10
I'm on my school holidays right now and I'm loving it here on Mylot. I spend several hours here, it's great! But I have one week left! After that, it's back to studying =/ I'm trying to fit mylot somewhere in my daily mon-fri schedule. In between the part time work, writing online, doing Aikido...err! lol I can definitely understand where you're coming from, Steph.
• United States
11 Jul 10
Thanks, T. I'm glad you understand. I'm amazed no one else has responded to my discussion. Usually I get a lot of responses. How odd.Especially when it's a discussion in one of the most popular categories! But anyway, I'm off of school too, but I just recently started my summer part time job. Luckily, it ends on July 23rd, but then I decided to volunteer at my local library.
@ann101 (518)
• China
12 Jul 10
So wonderful job working at library!I have always dreamed that we could have a library near my home,because the municipal library is so far from my home.I don't like read e-book,I always think reading the paper book is more enjoyable and comfortable.You are so lucky ann!
• New Zealand
12 Jul 10
For one thing, working in the library is quiet. Something I don't get often from my neighbours lol.
@JOIEMARVIC (2334)
• Philippines
12 Jul 10
I have been inactive in Mylot a lot of times already. That explains why I only have 1500+ posts here in Mylot and has just been paid twice. I admit, a lot of things draws my attention away from Mylot, work, preparation for the board exams, other online money making sites and more work. Though I really try to visit the site and post as much as I can to catch up, but sometimes my work really gets a lot of my time. At present, I have been actively participating in Mylot for almost 3 straight weeks. Hopefull this will remain like that and I hope to be rewarded fruitfuly for my hardwork.
• United States
16 Jul 10
I know what you mean. I hope you continue to stay active here! I'm trying, but flailing al little bit. I want to be here more than I am!
@eurekafemme (5874)
• Philippines
12 Jul 10
Very often, Steph.:-) I'm sharing my computer with my husband and he has the one who has the leverage to use it more often as I am always busy with the kids and the house chores. Even if I wanted to visit Mylot, I just couldn't do it . Either I have to finish everything first or wait for my husband to finish what he is doing in the pc. By the way, he works from home, mostly writing proposals for their organization that's why I don't want to interrupt him...
• United States
13 Jul 10
That's nice that he's home though. I wouldn't want to invade his time on the computer either! I'd snag it as soon as he's done though!
• Philippines
14 Jul 10
But sometimes, I wish he's out so I can have more time to do everything. It is quite stressful if he's here. Got to take care of all his needs as if I'm his secretary.:-)
@dian21 (606)
• Philippines
12 Jul 10
I actually don't feel that way. Because I know for myself that I have more important things to do rather than mylotting. I prioritize more my family, the activities with my family. Because I feel guilty sometimes when I am just sitting in front of the computer and doing mylot, but miss the activities with my family. That I feel sorry for myself. So lately, I realized that it's okay if I could participate less here in mylot than to miss my family. I'll just do here in mylot when I have a lot of spare time.
• United States
13 Jul 10
I know I have other things to do as well, but I like myLot, so I try to make time for it. And when I can't, it's kind of upsetting. It's almost like a stress reliever for me. I mean, I'm not going to ditch all my responsibilities for myLot, but I really wish I could come here more often.
@qianyun6 (2066)
• China
12 Jul 10
Of course, we all have our real lives, and no matter how reluctant we are, virtual life can't replace real life. Take me as an instance, now I spend 5-6 hours lotting here, it's only because I'm just graduate from university and my postgraduate live haven't begun. After August 28th, I must reduce lotting time largely for my PhD degree study. But I think I will try my best to squeeze out some time per day for myLot. I inly wish that myLot can live for more than 60 years from now, then I can come back here after retirement
• United States
13 Jul 10
Good luck with your studies! I spent that much time on here as well when Summer just began. Now, I have a job. But as of late August, I'll have to go back to college too!
@cher913 (25781)
• Canada
12 Jul 10
i so know what you mean. this is the first time that it has taken me about 6 months to make payout. usually i make it in 3 or 4 months!
@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
12 Jul 10
hi stephanieannc don't fuss yourself as I am sure we all understand that your real life must come first and we will be eagerly waiting for you when you are able to come back. I felt the same way today but my son Robbie has been here visiting with me and as he has a new job he can really only come on the weekends. We are so thrilled as he was out of work for a year and a half so this is just great.So now I am back on and since my roomie is in the hospital I can stay up a bit later if necessary to t ry to get caught up. and Tuesday morning I have an eye dr. appt. and Wednes morning a shopping trio so will my lot in the afternoons.
• United States
13 Jul 10
I'm not leaving jut yet! I just can't be online as much! I used to comment like 50 times when I first started. Now, I have a job so it's hard to comment that much. I wish I could. I'll always visit here though!
@neildc (17238)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
16 Jul 10
of course i will miss mylot when i am not able to come here for a long time. there are such times that we cannot prevent, like an emergency medical check-up, or someone came in to visit your office or you have important guest in the house. i only catch up with the discussions of my friends when i come back.
@Fireheart (683)
• India
12 Jul 10
You are not the only one who misses mylot, even i dont have time to spare for here. these days my work load has gotten bigger and i am taking a few minutes to spend my time here in mylot, i try my best to come here, i miss lot of my friends here, most of the people like me miss every day of mylot, mainly because the have their work of their own. its rare that sometime i forget to come here. for the past years i was very excited here even now. but my duty calls for it to take rest.
@rexrevol (328)
• Philippines
20 Jul 10
I always feel that way. I am a very busy man with busy schedules and extra-curricular activities and it's hard for me to find time here in myLot. But I'm trying hard to at least drop by for a response or two in a day.
@ET28LV (1890)
• Latvia
24 Jul 10
Yes this happens very often in my school days. When I come from school I am so tired to do other things and yes sometimes I am inactive here like two months from march to may. Every people have their real life's too and sometimes we just can't do what we want in my situation log in myLot. It would be nice If this situations would be less, but they are so much how they are. But, when you have free time again you can come here and seen us. Sorry for my late replay, but I had missed some of your discussions. Take care, Have a nice day!
@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
12 Jul 10
You are not alone. Yes I do. I think a lot of us myLotters do as well. There are just too many things to do and too little time. I spend almost all my time either at work or at home. While at home I normally have the computer on. That's when I keep up with myLotting as I move around doing things I'm supposed to do. The beauty of a laptop is that it's portable. When I need to be away for sometime I just put it on hibernation.
• Malaysia
12 Jul 10
yes...i have ever felt this way about myLot.. i was pretty busy the past few days that i really felt like i neglected Homer quite a bit.. i'm lucky that he didn't just run wild all over myLot by himself without me being there to control him so when i can't do anything about my time to get on to myLot as frequent as i want to, i just have to get on it when i am able too.. no point to force myself..i'd just end up getting stressed up and then it might be a totally different story altogether
@skysuccess (8857)
• Singapore
12 Jul 10
StephanieAnnC, Being quite connected with my wireless broadband access and that I travel a fair bit - I do not really miss out on most of my internet activities which will include posting on myLot. Like while attending the finals of the 19th FIFA World Cup Soccer tournament I was actually typing away a few responses before the match in the Soccer City Stadium amidst of the 84,490 spectators, which I felt was really cool and appreciative of how technology has progressed to what it is today. I do not miss out much on my personal accesses as I really have a lot of waiting time to do it. In other words, you just cannot find me doing nothing during my waiting or free times - so I can always stay on schedule here.
@Andyvil (793)
• Philippines
12 Jul 10
I don't spend a lot of time here also due to work and other priorities. But whenever I have a vacant time and have something I would like to discuss I often visit mylot. I also participate on discussions from other users. I really think mylot is a great place to get other peoples input and their different points of view on certain topics. Its a great place for me to learn new things and interact with other people.