are you always helping your child do their homework?

@amrddy (215)
Philippines
July 12, 2010 4:50am CST
I have an almost fourteen year old daughter and a sophomore. Whenever she comes home from school after kissing me the first thing I ask her is "do you have assignment?" Although I don't help her with her assignments anymore I tend to check on her projects sometimes if I feel that it is not passable I will help her. Like yesterday with our concerted effort we were able to produce a pencil holder made of recyclable materials. I teach her and I learn from her. Now she came home very happy because it was commented on and her teacher even liked it. Are you a handson mom or dad?
3 responses
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
3 Aug 10
I feel like it is very important to be a hands on parent. My daughter is only going to be in the second grade this year, but she has brought home homework from the time that she was in kindergarten and in that time I have helped her with it. I feel like the time that we spend together working on her homework is time that is really good for our family. We are able to learn from each other and in sharing that period of time in the afternoon, we are able to get to know each other better than we would have otherwise.
@amrddy (215)
• Philippines
9 Aug 10
Hi dorannmwin Yes savor the time you are spending with your daughter like what I did with my daughter. Time is passing us by so fast that by the time we are given a breathing space they are all grown up. Enjoy all the time you spend with your daughter share your joys and pains with each other.
@incus99 (1083)
• Philippines
12 Jul 10
I am a hands on Dad, but I only guide my children how to go about their assignments.. I don't interfere if they don't ask, sadly my youngest, 9 years old is still keen on demanding help in his assignments ...
@amrddy (215)
• Philippines
12 Jul 10
Girls mature easily than boys. I stopped teaching my daughter when she was nine but, of course, still hounding her whenever unit and mastery tests are up and these special projects. Otherwise she is on her own. I am sure although you are stressed in doing so you are also enjoying your time with your son.
@rosie230 (1696)
12 Jul 10
My son is 9 and when he gets homework, I do help him. Most of the time he gets quite stressed out with it, because he doesn't understand it. He finds it difficult in some subjects, especially anything that involves writing. Maths is his top subject, he likes that and does not normally need too much help with it, which is lucky really because I am not very good at maths myself lol. I do experience on many occasions though that his teacher sends him home with homework that not even I understand... quite often I have even had to go in the school and ask myself. I am sure that homework has become more complicated than it ever used to be!
@amrddy (215)
• Philippines
12 Jul 10
You are right, can you imagine the age gap between myself and my daughter? I am already 50 and she is fourteen. How do you expect me to help her with her lessons without reading on the subject. I guess we also have to learn new things in order to adapt to our new society. I guess you don't have to stress yourself but find enjoyable moments with your son. Time is flying and later on he will not need you anymore.